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Other Resources

If you're going through a stressful time, we recommend you read Shelley's article: Tips for Reducing Stress

Another great resource for getting your questions answered is GotQuestions.org. They have a huge library of frequently asked Bible questions. 

The NIV Quest Study Bible for Teens addresses common (and uncommon) questions teens ask about the Bible. If you don't already have a Bible, this is a good one.

Kristen Clark and Bethany Baird answer some tough questions that we face as girls today. Find some of the latest or search their archives here: http://www.girldefined.com/blog

And last, but not least, Shelley and I have written a book specifically for teen girls -- and this book could change your life or the life of a teen girl you know... Find out more now!

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Does God Destroy People? 
Teen Question: It seems like the Old Testament is full of stories of God either destroying someone or describing how he will. I thought God was a God …

HOW IS THIS GODS PLAN? 
MY MOM TURNED AWAY FROM HER PARENTS BECAUSE OF SOME HARD THINGS. SHE MARRIED MY DAD WHO WAS A DRUG ADDICT. WHEN THEY FOUND OUT THEY WERE HAVING ME THEY …

love and age difference 
is it lust or love? i like a guy who's not my race and he's 26 and i am 18...is it wrong??? well i've told the and he kind of has feelings for me..not …

Still looking 
I'm a 14 year old girl that has been struggling lately. I found Christ in 2007. But i feel like we are drifting apart. I have cut looking to keep my mind …

how is this gods plan?! 
A couple of weeks ago I thought I fell in love. There was this guy and I thought we both liked each other. Well later I found out that he had other intentions. …

I don't want to go behind my parents' back... 
Hi, My name is Hannah. I know this guy that is three years older than me, he is 19 and I'm 16,and I have a crush on him. He has also told me he likes me. …

Can God use a person with ADHD? 
I was just tested for ADHD and have it. Combined type actually. And I was just stressed out about it. I don't see how God can use a girl with ADHD. I know …

15 years old girl and 19 years old boy???? 
Hi, I'm 15, and I kind of like a guy who's 19. But he's so nice and always encourages me. He's a christian so I don't think he'll do anything bad/wrong. …

There is this boy... 
I'm only 13. We both like each other a lot, but we both want to date. His parents dont want him to date until he is 15. My parents are fine as long as …

Your path vs. His path 
when can you know that God put you in the right path and not your own choice?

used... 
i let guys use me... and i dont know why. i cant say no. ive just been used so many times in the past its all ive come to know, i want to stop but i dont …

Doubting God 
Hello, I'm at a time in my life where I'm doubting God. I've grown up knowing Him all my life.. but now I'm wondering if the Bible is really true. I yearn …

I Need Help 
My name is Sabrina and i am 15.. Think i am looking for my encouraging words than help. I didn't go up in a Churchy home. More like a Sinner's home. My …

Going through a lot of hurt... :( 
Hi,My name is Kristin and I reallyyyy need some advice! I dated a wonderful guy for a year and a half named Ethan. In the beginning it was great we were …

i am messed up!! What in the world do i do? 
ok so im 12 and im so new to dating..............my first boyfreind was names nathan and i dated him for more then a month....... umm i broke up with him …

Love and Insane 
I like two guys. One likes me and has a cussing girlfriend the other is warming up to me big time. What do i do? who do i pick? And on top of it all my …

In need of Advice.... 
So here is the thing; -Im fourteen years old (fifteen in April) -I attend youth group weekly as well as church -My parents are not christian (there …

Can I trust anybody? 
I feel like I pull one weight after another everyday. I've put my trust in people before and they just let me down. I guess that now I don't know if I …

Looking for Friends 
Hi, I live in a remote town that might as well be in the middle of nowhere. We go to a small country church. I am 17 and there is really no one for me …

Dressing Modestly 
HI! i feel that God has really been telling me to rethink how i dress and to be more modest. i have read many of your articles on modesty and they have …

CRAZY ACNE 
hey everyone. im in 6th grade, and i have super bad acne!! i wash my face every night and morning and i have used clean & clear, clearasil, and prescribed …

My friend is being abused. 
Today in gym class one of my best friends was trying to hide a bruise. I was like what's that from? (i was thinking WHO'S that from...) she's like nothing. …

i don't know what to do 
see i met this guy i really like him and he told me he liked me too and i said it back. this happened on facebook chat, when i told him i liked him he …

is it right to be in love in 5th grade? 
is it right to be in love when you r 10 and you want a boyfriend or you like someone. because i like someone

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Parents 
How do i deal with say like both of my parents work for the Police/Fire Department one works day shift and one works midnight shift to where i bearly see …

Advice on dating 
I am a Christian and I need your Help on some advice, I Like a guy in my class and He is really sweet and we connect like were just normal Best Friends. …

Struggling with idolizing outer beauty 
i know i have a problem with idolizing outer beauty, the hurtful thing is a feel ashamed of feeling this way and it is hard to always keep reminding yourself …

Is it right to have an online boyfriend? 
So I was wondering whether it is right or not to have an online boyfriend. I know it sounds like a dumb thing. But actually since it's online it's not …

the day i was murdered (rape) 
This old man (animal) work on me until I gained his trust. I was 12. He killed me that day. Took away all my future. I cried and felt guilty because …

My sister cuts, and I need help.  
My older sister has started cutting her wrist. She has a daughter and a husband. I do not know why she does this but she needs to stop. I do not know how …

Friendship 
My best friend who is basically like a sister had someone hack into her facebook. For some reason she thought it was me. She called me immature, self-centered, …

Naked pictures?? 
So if you send a boy a pic. of yourself naked. well like not a whole body pic but like just your breast or something that makes you not a virgin?

Am I a christian? 
I know that I became a christian but I don't remember exactly when, does that mean God wasn't important to me and I'm not? when I go to camps I always …

Confused about sexual games and thoughts 
How do I quit sexual games and thoughts? My life has never been so confusing.I don't feel like a christian anymore and I'm so bored.I have no goal in life.I …

how do i stop? 
masturbating. how r ways to stop? and no, i cant talk about it with my mom.

What do i do now 
A few months ago i asked for advice. (The title for my question was, Father having affair!) My father was cheating on my mother and she did not know. You …

Low self-esteem 
Hi! I have really low self-esteem, but not mainly because of my looks. Rather because of my personality. I'm quite a quiet and shy person you know, and …

Terrified of what people think of me 
I know God says we should only care about what he thinks but it is sooo hard not to care about what others think.... I am absolutely terrified of what …

self worth, image and feeling loved 
i have a few. I know its common but how am i meant to feel self worth? i have messed up so much, i was selfish and turned my back on God. I feel like …

How do I rededicate my life to Jesus? 
I have become so lost and I have drifted so far away from God, I have felt the need to rededicate my life to Jesus for a really long time and make it serious …

Is it Love? 
I met this guy at a Christian camp, and I was attracted to him immediately. He was sweet, funny, caring, and I really wanted to get to know him better. …

hugging guys 
Ok.... so recently on my missions project week for the youth at my church, one of the boys on the trip was run over by an ATV and died. my whole church, …

Being you in Christ 
I am eleven years old. I was born into a Christian family. I've always wanted to be born again (saved ) but I don't know how. I know that you're supposed …

struggling bulimic 
I've been struggling with an ED on and off for the past two years. At first it was anorexia, then that became harder to hide, so it just became easier …

poor love 
my age was 16 years old .. but i keep on couple, coz its was fun ..i dont know whether this man was good for me .. he is always make me cry ,. but i still …

My only problem is myself.. 
I have just recently been engaged and I am absolutely thrilled! My relationship with my fiance is amazing. We are best friends and we can have a blast …

losing weight 
I am a 12 year old girl and want to lose about 20 pounds,what foods should i eat?

Dating When Parents Don't Allow It In 6th Grade 
Ok so I'm a 6th grader and I'm dating this guy, but my parents don't allow me to date. At least until I'm 15. And I'm 12. So if they found out, I would …

Is there a group/club for modest girls/moms? 
Hi! Looking to see if there is something like a support group or club for girls who want to be modestly dressed, or for moms who are concerned? Thanks, …

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love or feelings???? 
how can i tell if i love someone or just have fuzzy feelings?If i do have just fuzzy feelings for a guy,what can i do to get rid of it?I also would like …

Jesus's Sacrifice<3 Belivable, and belived by me, but I'm confused=-[ 
I had a question. Okay so I understand that Jesus died on the cross so we could be forgiven and go to heaven. But, what happened to the people who lived …

Being Pulled Into The Teenage "Norm" 
Hello, My name is Mileyah. And I am just going to tell you right off the bat that this might be a little long but please read cuz i'm in desperate need …

Doubts and the Rapture May 21,2011 
I am a worry wart. I am constantly scared, and this stuff all over the news about Christians traveling the country and saying the rapture is happening …

Emo Cutting 
There's this girl in my grade. (I'm in sixth grade). And she says she's emo and she cuts herself. Not deep or anything, but she does. I mean, in all …

Sixth and Eighth 
Okay, so I'm in sixth grade. I used to have a crush on two of my guy-friends... But then found out that it was more of a deep love of friendship when …

complicated competition  
theres this guy in my class that i really like. i used to be his second choice, his first was his ex, who didnt like him. last week they started going …

Aspie Dating 
I am in 6th grade and want to have a relationship with a boy in my grade, but I do not know if he is ready for it yet, he and I are both aspies (high functioning …

Am I still a virgin? 
During the years that I was 12 and 13 I was struggling with an enduring addiction to porn and masterbation. I told myself that I wasn't hurting anything …

bad cutting 
I'm 15 nearly 16, I've been cutting since I was 13, when I first started cutting they were only little ones on the top of my arm but not theve for deeper …

Vanity 
Is it Vanity to think I am pretty? I do not rub it in or anything, I just do not see myself as ugly, I do not want to change anything... is it vanity to …

how do i help this friend ??? 
i have a friend that is having trouble in her life. her dad is not that great and i think thats why she proubly is looking for love in other places. (lets …

feeling alone 
im feeling kinda alone right now like i dont have that one friend that you can tell anything and you wondnt get made fun of. that one person you can tell …

Father's having an affair 
my father is having an affair my mother does not know. im just lost.

Image and personality 
Hi, at my school I've really spoiled my reputation. I am very emotional so I cry a lot. People call me a cry baby. I'm also top of class so when i was …

Salvation seeker 
I am 11 years old. Last year I prayed to God to save and i repented. But i think i didn't do it right. I'd didn't feel like I was saved. I go to a school …

discrimination against gays 
what about discrimination of gays and other religions when discriminating is an ultimate sin in itself? Gays are people too they have hearts and souls …

My Friend and "Spooky" Books 
Hi ya'll! I have an important question, I have a friend who has started to read horror story books, she is a Christian - but has been struggling with …

Broken Cup Story 
I recently watched Shelley's Broken Cup Story, And she said that when she used to have a crush, she wanted a little attention that day and she's are happy, …

Just a little lost... 
So, I've been cutting for about 2-3 years now. I'm 15. I've gotten help from people at a summer christian bible camp. I'm realizing lately though that …

Am I still a virgin? 
I always assumed that being a virgin meant not having intercourse until I read this in the sex and dating section here, "Intercourse is physical sexual …

Webcam Stripping 
Hi! So, recently i got into this habit of web cam sex with random hot guys. I used to be such a strong Christian, and now i feel like a piece of crap. …

Friend advice  
I have a very good friend and when I am hanging out with her at her house, she usually talks really disrespectful towards her mother. Recently, she has …

abused & wanting God 
im 18 years old & im saved. i used to be really strong with God & i still am in some ways but its not the same..i lead bible studies & im trying really …

Hair 
I have a little problem that I just do not want to ask anyone else about. Every day for the past two years, I have worn my hair in low pigtails... …

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Should I date someone three years older than me? 
I just turned seventeen, and I am currently in college studying to become a pediatric nurse. I never dated in high school because I believed it was not …

Meant To Be 
Just got out of a relationship a couple wks ago.. had a fight with him the night before. its wednesday and on sunday i found my ex flirting with some girl. …

Kissing. 
Is it so wrong that I don't really like kissing boyfriends? One boy told me, "I feel bad for your husband." I've come to the conclusion that, because …

The Bible 
Hi. I just downloaded a link for your self-esteem lessons. I was reading through it, and I saw multiple instance where you did not capitalize the word …

Boys! 
i really like this boy, he's like super cute. we talk a lot and text a lot and he always acts differently around me so i think he likes me, but i'm not …

classmate 
okay, so ive written about him before. (see "classmate that is hard to show God's love to" and "S'ambrosia") just to clear this up, i DONT like this guy. …

Help with my daughter 
I need help on what to do with my 15 year old sister. I asked to use her cell phone and came across an inappropriate text message from a boy and an inappropriate …

Me. . . . Help. 
I gave the title "Me" becuz this... this IS me. Im Sarah, and Im homeschooled. Just to start off. Through my life I have always kept to myself. Im a freshman …

acne treatment? 
Hi ive suffered from acne for years and tried everything. Nothing really works completely. I saw a treatment called Aknicare advertised on TV, so far …

I NEED HELP IMMEDIATELY!!!!!!!! 
this is kinda long, but please read it!!! so last night i was at a sleepover with several friends from my Christian middle school. one of my friends …

Self injury 
I cut myself. And now it became addicting. My mom knows about it but I CaNT stop. Is there anyway I can prevent myself from cutting?

Modesty  
I was wondering what some of your thoughts are on skirts vs pants. I prefer to wear skirts, but now I don't feel as strong in my modesty convictions. I …

they all like me... 
there's AT LEAST 5 guys at my school who like me. i dont like any of them, ... actually, i dont like anyone. (boys) they always flirt with me. what should …

S'ambrosia 
dear S'ambrosia, THANK YOU for your comment on "classmate who is hard to show GOd's love to"!!! (i wrote it.) it really encouraged me!! recently, i …

Repentance? 
Ok I am lying awake talking to God and I realize...I lie a lot. I'm pretty good at it too and most times I do it without thinking. I want to stop. I want …

Is oral sex a loss of virginity? 
I have heard many sides to the argument, but I'm still not sure on the answer. Some say it has the word "sex" in it so it's definitely a loss of virginity. …

Why is masturbation wrong? 
Hello, (I don't personally but) I read so much about people having problems with masturbation... I don't see why it is wrong. Does the Bible actually …

I'm lost. 
I was baptized when I was younger and when my family moved I grew away from God. Every time I am in small group or in service, God's word always

weight loss 
I need some help. I need to lose weight. i'm 5'8 and 300 pounds. I have a cute face but my weight is bad. Its not that im sick, or cant do things for …

I need advice 
I've been saving myself for marriage since I was a little girl. A few years ago, I verbally spoke that promise to God. I knew that making Him that promise …

to love my critical family 
my mom and dad are critical about my weight. How can i be happy at my weight? they think i am hurting my health, but i take medications that hinder me …

Feeling empty 
I'm a 14 year old girl and even at this age, have a problem with masturbation. I am addicted to it and the longest I can stay with the Lord without having …

regarding virginity 
i lost my virginity , somehow help me to get it plsss

classmate who is really hard to show God's love to 
i go to a Christian school and i am a Christian. i love this site! anyways, theres this non Christian guy in my class. his favorite (and most frequently …

he broke my heart so many times 
okay, so in august i started liking this guy at my school. he seemed so sweet and cute and i really thought he was a Christian. he really liked me 2. this …

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i can't believe in God 
hey... i've been trying so hard to believe in God but i can not it's been so hard cos i really want to but i can't and when i do try to spend time with …

Wanting to Change 
I am fifteen and a girl and i'm sure you know how appearance is so important these days. If you change something about yourself naturally is that bad? …

Facing a break up. 
I have been in a really long relationship with this boy. He was my first love and my first boyfriend and I've liked him for 5 whole years. Now he breaks …

Posing 
I've never actually had a real relationship with God. I feel like I'm just a poser and a blasphemer. I'm not growing up in a Christian family, and I don't …

mad at him 
the guy i like did something unexpected-- he bullied someone. right in front of me. i dont like him anymore but hes in my class at school and everytime …

Can God Heal Scars? x 
Hello Everyone I am 13 years old I am just writing that i have two scars that am very affected about when i was 1 years old i took a blade and damage my …

Forgive me I have sinned 
Last night I got drunk and I was involved in an orgy. I know that this was a sin but in my inhiberated state, I was so full of lust that I could not help …

How do you know when you need to tell those around you? 
When I was 7 my sister that was 18 married a guy that I adored. He was the big brother that I always wanted. When I was 12 or 13 he started making comments …

what i just learned about the guy i like 
ok, so i like this guy at school. he and i are both new, but we came from different schools. ive liked him for about 2 1/2 months and he likes me too. …

Reasons for trusting Fathers 
I was sexually abused by my stepdad last year for a few months and he still occasionally when we are alone gives me gestures I don't like. I told my youth …

HELP ME! 
LONG STORY BUT JUST WANT TO SAY TO PRAY 4 ME AND ALSO MY FRIEND BECUSE MY FRIEND DOSENT DESRVES TO BE TEADED LIKE THAT AND 4 ME TO HELP ME MORE IN GODS …

hi, I'm Sofie 
First of all, I'm Jewish, so please don't come to me with, "what would jesus do?" and, "That's how satan gets you", because I don't believe in Satan. …

Music 
sometimes I hang out with my friend who is not REALLY a Christian and they do not listen to Christian music. I love to listen to the beat and the background …

Boys, Boys, Boys.. 
I really like this Christian guy. Whenever I see him, I see Christ. He has a great love for God just as I do, and I love that. He's not afraid to be himself, …

hiding from the truth 
Hi I am a 18 year old teenage girl. I'm a lesbian and a cutter. My mom hasn't gotten used to the whole lesbian thing yet. She hates it, and yells at me …

FEELING LONELY EVEN WHEN TRYING TO DO GOD'S WILL 
hi I feel lonely and empty inside even though i am a christian,i ask Jesus to help me but i still feel empty and lonely inside and i feel even Jesus …

Confused in Love 
I'm in love with someone, who doesn't feel the same way. But I really do have this strong feeling that he is the one, and there are a lot of sign that …

skin and hair 
HI i want to be acne free and I use proactive does this help and how long will it take to get rid of my acne. I want to be in good shape will running …

Should I Tell? 
I made a promise not to tell that my sisters foster brother touches me. He made me promise. I've never broken a promise. Ever. I still haven't told anyone …

he wasnt supposed to do that 
I am 15 years old going on 16 in november. I was sexually abused when I was 11 or 12 by my 18 year old brother(then, he's now 22). I never thought that …

Did God help me?  
God helps me when I ask for something he gives it to me, lol um i don't know? before my grandma died that night i had a strange feeling i never had before …

LOve? I dont know?! 
Hii x Ok theres this boy and ive liked him since he came to our school. He went out wiv my friend at first then this other girl now hes seeing another. …

Prayer Problems Am i praying too much? 
ive had this problem for about 6 months now and i just dont know how to escape. I expect im the only person who has this! ...i think im praying too …

multiple guy friends 
i have a close, long-time 14 year old friend at school who truly likes multiple guys. i know this is a bad idea. i have another friend in the same situation …

Mean People 
I'm 17 years old and here lately, especially last year, I have dealt with a lot of bullying. The things that people said to me were all similar in that …

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Games on True Beauty 
I am doing a devo in my girls bible class, and I was wondering if you have any ideas about games we could play that would go along with True Beauty (That …

A void 
I have a pretty good life. I am a 15year old girl. I am top of my class. I have a number of friends and I attend a private school. My parents make a decent …

I will go 
hi my name is shaydi. im 15 and after 7 year of not seeing my father, because he left with some young girl to north carolina, i just found out that i am …

I feel lonely 
I am a 15 year old girl. I have a loving family and I go to a private school. My parents make enough money. I am top of my class, have everything i need …

girl at my school 
there is a girl at my school and she isnt saved. when i spoke to her in dance class and told her that the move she wanted me to do was inappropriate, she …

Daughter's self perception 
My daughter's 9th birthday is today! She is a beautiful little girl with an amazing heart and she is very creative and gifted academically. However, I …

I'm overweight 
I'm a thirteen year old girl who lives in Tucson, AZ. I have struggled with my weight for most of my life. I don't think I'm ugly I just would feel more …

Hard life 
O.K I don't want anyone to feel sorry, but i do want help. As far back as i can remember, my dad would hit me as a punishment. At first it was just his …

Help! I just don't know what to do anymore....... 
I know the statistics. I know the death rate. I know the mental, physical, and spiritual tolls it takes on you. But I can't see how I can give it all up. …

help mee!! 
I'm a girl who has problems of masturbation and porn. i am "getting better" but still have that sudden urge of going back into sin and i want to really …

Relationship with Jesus......... 
I used to be very very close to God. At least I thought that i was. But then, I feel like things got in between us. My friends, cell phone, etc. Everything …

Dirty Pictures 
Alright so, i have to admit, when i have a boyfriend i love it, because he always makes me feel so special. when i want a guy, i tend to do almost anything …

S.O.S!!!!! 
o.k.I am trying to get boys to like me. but it isn't woking out. what can i do? SOS!!!!

Confused 
If when people die, and they either go to heaven or hell, then why are there ghosts? I know I'm going to heaven, and I'm a christian, but I just don't …

Future Relationship 
From ages 5-6 I was sexually abused in the classroom... memories of this just came back about last year when I was 17. I have never had a boyfriend, never …

Crushes  
So I have had a crush on this guy for like 4 months and everytime I think about him I can't help but to smile and my stomach flutters and I feel like something …

Lost and Loving It 
I have a boyfriend. He's kind and sweet, and I love him. Problem is, my parents don't know. They seem on the outside to be very strict and sure of themselves, …

High heels 
I really want to start wearing heels. I'm 12 and my older sister i wearing heels and its making me kinda jealous that my mom wont let me wear them. Are …

Anorexia, OCD and severe low self esteem 
Hey Shelley- I was reading about your website. I love Beth Moore and see you on her page.. my 14 year old niece has pretty severe anorexia. My daughter …

Friend trouble.. 
I have a friend who thinks that she doesn't deserve love. She knows that my friends and I love her to pieces, but she won't accept it. She thinks she's …

I don't know what to wear.  
Hi my name is Breanna. I hate the way I look. I come home from school mad and upset. I don't care what I wear but that's not the problem when I'm at school …

i'm desperate. my life is falling apart and always has been 
i cut, drink, have sex, smoke, throw up, overdose, and do basically everything destructive. i grew up in an abusive home. i use things to try to cope but …

Christian feeling lonely and empty 
I am very close to the Lord. He has communicated with me a lot and I have proof that he is there from time to time. I trust Him. I wish I could understand …

Tattoo is a sin? 
Having tattoo is a sin? is it true? cause I saw some christian member have tattoo on their body too.

I'm so discouraged 
For the longest time I have had so much struggles with simply loving who I am, and accepting myself. And through your book and bible study, and the stories …

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Tipping  
Does tipping count as losing your virginity?

dating 
hey shelley! first of all thanks for this website.. its the first time i read it and its just a blessing from God! ok so here is the thing..im dating for …

Depressed 
(Sorry about the length of this story) My whole life feels like the soap operas on T.V. My grandma died of cancer five years ago but on that day, she …

She's cutting.. 
Ya.. my best friend recently told me she cuts. She's been doing it for months, and not told me because she was afraid I'd judge her. Of course I am not …

forgiving myself 
Hi, I'm having real problems with forgiving myself. And I sense that God wants me to forgive myself, but i don't know how. Help, i'm so bound.

Beth Moore 
Hi Shelley, You seem to be pretty familiar with Beth Moore's teachings. I was wondering if you remember which video series it was where Beth talks …

speech 
hi i'm Tay and i'm 15 and i'm doing my speech at school on eating disorders, do you have any thing that i could write in my speech about anorexia and bulimia?it …

Prom 
I'm 15 and a freshman, and I really, really want to go to the prom at my school this year, but my mom won't let me go! I don't understand why! She doesn't …

I feel like a failure 
I feel very depressed... I don't normally feel that way... I am known as the "cheerful and playful" girl. The thing is, I am so disliked everywhere. The …

Getting Horny  
im a 12 year old girl and when i see somthing sexual or when my boy friend rubs my chest i tend to get horny and say stuff that i dont mean is this normal …

micheal 
im sooo in love with this guy but he's already had sex at an early age. i dont want to leave him but i feel its the only choice i have. where do i go? …

judged on the way i look? 
ive been judged and put down in the past and present and i dont know wat to do. so wat should i do?

boy crazy 
i like this guy but hes older then me. so hes 16 and im 13. im not allowed to date anyone yet and my parents would not let me go out with someone older …

Growing up... 
Is it normal to start growing pubic hair and armpit hair and to start devolping breasts at the ages 10-12???

relationships 
heey, i need help. i have a boyfriend who i love so much. but we have been going out for 4 months now. and all we have done is hug. all my friends …

Getting Pregnant 
Okay i been through a lot and lately i been thinking that i want to have a baby. Maybe it is because of the lack of love i received from my mother. It …

A real answer is what i need 
what if you are beautiful to yourself, parents and other family and yet you still feel a missing part of beauty from friends and they are these beautiful …

I dont share his feelings and it hurts him  
Okay there is this boy that likes me but i dont return his feelings at all. I have issues with this. First off i feel like i hurt him without doing …

Bible Verses on Beauty! 
Hey there! I came across your website by chance but have found that it's a wonderful resource. I'm 17 and am writing a bible study on Inner Beauty for …

My sister who is suffering 
My best friend Emmarose is suffering from anorexia. She just got admitted to a hospital so they're going to monitor her. Her parents are telling me that …

Worried for a friend 
This friend is a guy and we have been quite close for the past few months, however now we barely talk. we used to text most nights and we were able to …

Family Not Saved 
well i have a question for you. I am trying to be a christian and stuff but its hard when my family isnt saved. How am i suppose to deal with that? What …

How do I tell her?? 
I have a friend at school who always tells me and my best friend that she feels empty inside. I think it might be because she isn't a Christian, but I'm …

Not a little girl..... 
My parents think that I am still a little girl, and they treat me like one, even though I'm not. I'm 13, and they haven't realized that I'm growing up, …

Youth Group Games 
GREAT YOUTH GROUP GAMES, ANYBODY GOT SOME? MAINLY GIRL GAMES. I'm thinking I'll get a really long list of answers! :)

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Do crushes happen for a reason? 
I just wanted to know, do to little things like having a crush on a boy happen for a reason? I have a bad crush on a guy and i dont know why, its not …

I got it bad and it hurts  
So recently i've developed a crush on a guy, and i really like him, and its just pure, i mean nothign dirty, just pure, and i prayed about it,but i said, …

What is modesty???? 
What is modesty? Is it how you dress? I want to know what it is. Is it wearing loose clothes, and no make-up? Please answer this soon someone. Thanks.

Media Questions for Shelley 
Hi Shelly my name is Karlencia and i was wondering if i could ask you a couple of questions about the medias influence on young women today for my research …

I Agree Yet I'm Confused 
My name is Brittany. I have been with Joshua for two years now and I really feel like I have a connection with him. I have dated a lot of guys sadly, but …

HOW COME?? 
Why aren't all the questions answered???? I've written a few questions and never gotten answers. And other people have too. It says right above me, "Shelley …

Changing... 
I'm 15, and have always been a tomboy until recently. I never thought about marriage or boys, but ever since this past year it's changed. I've changed, …

I need a little help 
Well I'm 14 and i don't know how to talk to my relatives they are dead but I feel like he's not I keep telling myself or trying to trick myself into believing …

boyfriends 
on valentines day a boy in my class told me that he was in love with me i was excited because i really liked this boy but friday last week he told me that …

I'm scared to tell my friend she's gone too far 
I've always been the biggest prude around, never kissing boys or anything above that. Well, when my best friend hit 8th grade, she got a boyfriend. …

What to do? 
there are two boys in my class that have a crush on me and they're best friends. One of them is a really good friend to me but i think i like the other. …

Boy Drama 
OK. So, lets see. I have a friend that is a guy named Philip, and everyone at the beginning of the year thought we were dating. Well, we are only friends …

Love..  
I know for sure that I am in Love with this guy.. we have been together for almost a year now. We have been through so many things together, some good, …

my life and the depression with the tears 
hello my name is Ari, my problems with boys are so so difficult. to understand my problems you must know how it. in 4th grade i started to develop …

I Need Advice! 
I already kind of posted this question...but no one has given me any advice! Please give me some ideas for this girls group that I posted as "Young Gals". …

Sporty but not flirty PLEASE Help! 
Hello, I am 14 and 8th grader in junior high. I love sports and have always been considered the "tom boy." But these last few years i have really started …

masturbation question 
i didn't know what masturbating was.....but i've done it........i was freaked when i read what it was.....i ran to a quiet place and asked God to forgive …

I need help with this boy problem!  
I am 16 years old, and i like this guy alot. I have know him for 4 years and since i was 14 we have been friends with benefits off and on. i know this …

ouch! 
i get terrible cramps when i have my period, for the first 1 and a half days! SO bad that i throw up and lay in bed all day! any advice???????

Young gals 
i am starting a young girls group in my area, for 5th and 6th graders,i really want to help this age group to remain pure in the coming years,wear appropriate …

i Dont know what to do  
I was going out with my ex boyfriend for 4 months.We both live in two different countries and I found out he was still seeing his ex girlfriend but ended …

need advice - my best friend 
my best friend (or old best friend) needs help. we both found God together and we used to always pray and go to church. i have always loved him and we …

I Dare You... 
Being a teenager... is hard... Before, i was all about it. The Rebellion. Now... Nothings the same. People are taking notice of how …

Found my love in cutting 
I cut alot, but I don't think of it really being bad, no, it's a beautiful pain. No one can understand it if they haven't gone through it (or like me are …

BOY HELP!!!!!! D: 
Ok well i need help. i really want a boyfriend, and its not because i want to fit in. anyways most of the girls my age dont even have a boyfrend yet (im …

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me 
hi my name is querida and for so long i thought of my self as ugly. people say i have a big forehead. i wake up everyday and ask god to change me. i ask …

HELP!!!!!!!!! 
I LIKE THIS GUY BUT I AM AFRAID TO ASK HIM OUT. WE HAVE ALREADY GONE OUT BEFORE AND I AM SCARED TO ASK HIM OUT AGAIN. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Inner Beauty 
can i write a page about Inner Beauty?

What should I do? 
At school, boys call me fat and ugly. They judge the way i walk. I feel like the world dislikes me. What should I do?

Help for a friend! ASAP! 
My best friend is really struggling with depression and suicide (like she is constantly wanting to kill herself), she asked me for help, what do I do? …

I am expected to be perfect but I am not... 
I don't have any friends right now. I am home-schooled, I don't go to church, and I was recently hit by a car while walking (the driver of the car was …

Why do normal things seem so hard for me 
i'm pretty a sound minded individual w/ complexities. I work hard to take care of myself. i'm smart, did not go to college although i desire to but have …

sex in marriage 
Ok so I was wondering what your take is on oral sex in marriage. Because the Bible says that the marriage bed should be pure right? Is that considered …

New to this bein a leader of a bible study 
I'm a 21 year old young woman who is putting together a bible study strictly for teen girls and I don't know where to begin or what all to study with these …

BOY DAZED 
i really like this boy, sean. we talked about a month ago for a couple of hours like we've been friends sinse pre k. ever sense, we don't talk very much. …

Is there such thing as too much self-esteem? 
To re-word the above, I am over-confident. I love showing off (which is vain/conceited), and my adoration for all things sparkly is proof of that. I'm …

A bleeding heart... 
I really need help. I get depressed a lot and sometimes am tempted to cut (I have given in 2 times). My heart feels like it is broken and ripped apart. …

Guy thats older 
Hi. i like this guy, he's in 11th grade which means he's 16, and he's my sister's friend. I'm in 8th grade and i really like him. we're 3 years apart …

dating a nonbeliever 
Hey, its Beth. I went to Worldview Warriors and i loved it but i have a question ... i am dating this guy he is not a christian and he believes in evolution …

I'm sick. 
I'm sick, its winter, and I am really bored. What can I do?

Guys Judging. 
Why do most guys judge girls before they even know them? I mean its not like we're a different species. They just watch us as we go by and judge you based …

Does he like me? 
Ok i really like this new kid at my school. He talks to me in all of our classes we have together and in the hall he smiles at me. I dont know if he is …

Fat 
I am 14 years old and i feel fat. everytime i look in the mirror i dont feel good about myself. I have no self esteem what-so-ever. I get a lot of people …

Trying to lose weight 
im trying to lose weight, im not fat......im just short 4 my weight.....ha. i am trying to lose 30 pounds or so. any helpful advice???? i am young so i …

Suicide, a sin? 
If someone were to commit suicide does that mean that they aren't a Christian? Is it a sin to kill yourself? What are some ways to cope with depression …

broken and empty and trapped 
everyone who knows me knows my heart for god.people always tell me how they admire my walk but in reality im a mess.i put on a mask.people think im all …

help for cutting 
hi i cut myself every night. i don't know why. i want pain and i want attention i want someone to feel sorry for me. because my mom said she didnt want …

embarassed about my masturbation addiction 
i have a masturbation addiction....i am a girl in grade 8 and i was wondering if there was any long term effects to masturbating? i dont know how to stop …

Body Image 
I'm looking for some advice on body image. A few years ago ( three) I was overweight. Not obese or anything but overweight none the less. One day I …

my little world of boys and friends 
there's a group of about 10 teens that i and my friends hang with, and in that about 4 or 5 boys, and sometimes i get caught up in the thoughts that say, …

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a cutter and depressed-so so confused... 
hi, my name's Diana, and here is what i wanted to ask... i am only 14 years old, and have been through a lot, but i do not feel like going through the …

never love again.. 
ive been single for a year now and im not planning on dating anytime soon.ive always been the type of girl that has just been about one guy.when i like …

I want to help... 
I'm a Christian, and so is my friend. Shes been having a really hard time recently, facing thoughts of suicide and different things. She asked me for help, …

thanksgiving weird 
My cosin was doing drugs and now he's on house arrest. I think that he doesn't feel like he belongs in our family because he's adopted. I love him just …

my skin 
I am a confident girl I were lots of makeup but when i take it off i am white and got redness round my nose i what can i do?

Getting Picked on for not being Fat or Skinny 
I am not that fat nor am I skinny but I am in the middle and some people that goes to my school pick on me what should I do???

Boys 
I really like this boy and we have been talking for about 3 weeks. he is so scard i am going to dump him, how do i make him believe im not going to do …

I cant wait any more. 
I met a guy that became a good friend of mine he was a good christian guy and my mom really liked him. That was almost 4 years ago. i moved away we …

I feel Ugly!!! 
Why do guys say i am ugly, even my mom says i am beautiful?

Do i have sin in me? 
My name is Savannah i am 12 years old. I have got a voice in my head that i think is a part of sin. I fell when i read this that i want to cry. I have …

tans 
most of the girls have really tanned legs and they are always showing them off to everyone. I've been recently going out with someone and he likes me …

self esteem 
i feel fat and everyone makes fun of me. we go to private school and i am only 2 pounds overweight. i think that i have very low self esteem, so i need …

Modesty in the Bible 
Okay, so my guy friend is a new Christian, and I am very happy for him. However, he is struggling with what I am telling him about God's morals and what …

WHAT DOES HE WANT? 
OK SO THERES THIS BOY WHO HAD A GIRLFRIEND BUT THEY BEEN BROKEN UP FOR THREE WEEKS.HE LOVED HER ALOT IT SEEMED AND SO I ADDED HIM ON MYSPACEE FOR NO APPARENT …

STRANGE 
ok my dad is hiding something that is strange he never tells me hes always out of the house and come back late from work i ask him why do you always come …

I JUST DON"T KNOW!!!!!!!! 
Help me i just don't know what to do right now....my parents scream and yell at me all the time i can't talk to them about anything itz just a mess....like …

Pregnant at 18 
ive always been the good girl never done drugs, never partied, never had sex or lowered myself at all i had very high morals and still do i am pregnant …

How To Apologize 
I have a very guilty conscious. I find it harder and harder to apologize all the time. I can't bring myself to admit I am stupid and klutzy and ask for …

Getting more friends & getting a boyfriend? 
I know I can be really shy around people that I don't know & it's sometimes hard for me to come out of that shell. But once I start talking to someone, …

You broke my heart and now u want me back!!!! 
Ok i like this boy named Damien. But he broke my heart he told me that he did not like me any more and he used to date me!!And now he wants to date me …

i like a boy that i cant have... 
i used to see this boy at my school we were not going out, he really liked me in i like him. but then i started to get bored... we didnt talk in school …

HELP!!!! I want to look sexy for school 
i get picked on at school for spots,big lips and big eyes. but when i go out i do all my make up i think i look good. help me. how do i look sexy …

Can God Heal Acne? 
I'm 17 and I've been struggling with acne and bad skin for more than 2 years. It's really affecting the way I feel about myself and the fact that I …

Love and Sex 
Im a christian and i have fallen for a boy in my school. We have had sex and I am 16 even though I wanted to wait till marriage. The only problem is …

Help, I like my best friend! 
First of all I believe in dating to find your husband for life. So I am 15 but I am a grade ahead and I think I am falling in love with my best friend …

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question about boys 
hey i live in scotland im 12 years old and i just started high school im really enjoying it but theres this boy arran who is english & i really like him …

this boy in my high school 
i like this boy that is in my high school hes a year older than me but he is always looking and staring at me and laughing at everything i say and when …

dating good-bye??? 
you know i dont think you can not "date" if you want to marry. sure you can try and focus on guy "friends" but once you begin to feel a respect and soft …

when i finally meet a boy  
when i meet a boy i like and would like to get to know him better, how do i talk and hang with him without being obvious??? cause all my friends are bound …

kids??? 
is it ok to have more than 10 kids???

Cant Love my self 
Ok,Im only 13 so i have nothing big to worry about,But im a little chubby,And other than that im a normal looking teen,But no matter how hard i try,I cant …

Part 2-He Makes Me Feel... 
"Sex...sex...sex... that's all he wants from you. God loves you." I repeated in my mind as he's screaming and crying. I held my breath and closed my …

He Makes Me Feel... 
I dated this guy 4 months ago and he was really special... at the time. He showed me intimacy very passionately that i absolutely loved. I fell for it, …

Beautiful doesnt exist when I look in the mirror at myself. 
This is the first time i've ever been on this site, and i wanna give it a try. I went through alot last summer and i still carry that baggage and i dont …

dreams 
i keep having dreams about these guys that i fall in love with, i dont know what they mean???

i am totally confused 
i seriously need help! okay so.. theres this guy who likes me.. and he likes me like.. a lot.. and ive been going out with him. i didnt tell my parents …

i think and ive been told im overweight 
Sorry i know i just sent a question about 5 minutes ago but i have another one. my step mom keeps telling me im over weight im about 5foot 9inches and …

ive been told im hot 
hi im lili im 13 and all my friends and family have told me im a total babe but guys think im totally ugly. why?

i feel lonely 
i am a 15 year old girl. okay, so i went out with this guy for a year and 4 and a half months. i was completely in love. but i broke up with him because …

How to mend a broken testimony? 
How do you mend your spiritual testimony when you've unintentionally messed it up? You say something, and it sounds silly and goofy at nighttime, but than …

i dont understand 
When i am with my friends, sometimes i feel so lonely, like no-body really understands me. But i always hide it under a different exterior and i dont …

Help! 
I went to camp recently. The pastor there gave us a challenge. The challenge was to tell someone you knew wasn't saved about Jesus within 3 weeks. Well, …

does god turn me down? 
I feel really horrible about myself first of all i feel like people constantly ignore me at school. i don't talk to people that much because i don't trust …

should I read "a walk to remember"? 
I love the movie A walk to remember. I usually go to pluggedinonline.com from focus on the family when i want to see if a band or movie is good for me. …

Sizing problems!!!!!!! 
I am a twelve year old girl and I am 128 ponds and in bottoms (clothing) i am an ten to elven depending on most shops i feel really angry with myself do …

Modesty with the parents 
I have grown up in a Catholic home for 14 years. My father has recently become very strict about modesty. Neither my parents used to be so it came to me …

it is okay to date older guys 
IS IT OK I LIKE OLDER GUYS?? AS IN 2-3 YEARS OLDER?? I HAVE ALWAYS LIKED GUYS OLDER THAN ME, I'M 14 AND IT'S WEIRD BUT OLDER GUYS SEEM TO "NOTICE" ME …

beauty? 
All of my friends were make up and mini skirts. I want to be like them. The problem is that I was raised CGC Penicostal and if I did that I would go against …

Seeking God's Guidence... 
I met a guy at my school, and he's come to mean a lot to me, but he graduated last month. I'm only 16. I haven't been able to see him outside of school …

where do I find strength 
my ex of 11 years dumped me for another woman who has money 2years ago I now live with my sick mom who has(demetia/amputated toe) I was so depressed about …

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[Called into a relationship : ) need help] 
I recently got back from a youth camp & God spoke to me & told me that my heart is ready for a relationship with a guy. We have been really building each …

im confussed about a boy 
its taylor im really confused about this boy named brandon he stares at me and i stare at him i think he likes me at times then i dont his sister who im …

Fashion questions 
Hey. My name is Emily and i'm new to your we site. you know, i'm growing up and i'm starting to worry about fashion. do you think you could give me some …

hidden feelings 
this boy liked me and he asked me out and i was so under pressure i said yes and it turned out so wrong i made a huge mistake and i wish that hadnt have …

hello shelley:) 
alright so my name is magen, and i've spent last week at a youth camp with my church and i've felt God moving me to help make a difference in the world. …

what should i do?!!? 
Well for starters i wear a scarf. I have a crush on this boy. He is in my class and wont be in my bus anymore since he is shifting into a new house this …

whats wrong with me? 
my name is samanthya and im a normal averge teenager. i never really thought being a teenager was this hard, i mean with boys and school and friends especially …

i am alone/jealous 
i am alice and i am 12. i guess i am pretty lucky for the life that i have. but i cant stop from being sad. my three best friends are the most beautiful, …

Help Me Lose weight fast, Please!! 
i need to lose alot of weight and fast, but it would also help if i gained muscles. I eat so-so (healthy wise). i need some tips!

Whaaaaat? 
So there is this boy at my school, and, let's just say he's pretty cute. So almost every girl in our grade has dated him or at least had a crush on him …

lonely and depressed  
Okay, I'm feeeling very lonely and depressed. I really want a boyfriend, and i've been praying for one for the past couple years. I've only had one relationship …

Boy hormone control 
Are christian guys just as bad with hormone control as nonchristians??

Shouldn't everything be okay  
I've been feeling lonely for a while now. Its almost unbearable. I dont have a boyfriend,and i kind of want one, cause yes, i have God, friends,and family …

Revenge and Getting Even 
My friend was making fun of me a couple of weeks ago because I was talking to a boy that she despises. She was always saying that I was in love with him …

feel like im being called 
HELP! I have prayed to God to put me to work in his ministry. I feel like i'm being called to do his work i just dont know what he wants me to do.

Should a girl ask as boy to the prom? 
MY DAUGHTER GOES TO A CHRISTIAN HIGH SCHOOL. THEY SAY IT IS WRONG FOR A GIRL TO ASK A GUY TO A HIGH SCHOOL EVENT, BASED ON THE BIBLE. MY QUESTION IS WHERE …

All messed up, depression. 
Here's my story, I'm 15 this year. I am not like the other youth who doing activities with their friends such as hanging out, sleep over and so on. I want …

I just need answers 
Im trying to understand my feelings. I feel like i have alot of hate and anger deep inside me. I pray to God and talk out my problems but it never goes …

Short shorts 
How short is too short for shorts?

Confusion about my feelings 
I have a question about boys. OK, I am 17. when I was 14 I had a crush on a boy from church that is 2 years younger than me. The next year I found …

gossip  
these girls in my class can start up a good rumor.they always lie and call me two-face and stuff behind my back.they stole my bff and she even told me …

i miss him 
My dad abandones me when i was 10 and now im 14 i miss him soooooooooo much i wish he was in my life but know hes in Narth Carolina i wish i could live …

Should I Read the Twilight Book? 
Lately all my friends have been talking about the Twilight movie and books. At first, I was just like whatever. But then they started begging me to read …

My Weight... 
First of all, your website has been very helpful as I have been researching for a paper I'm doing on Anorexia. I hate how girls are obsessive about their …

Want to mentor senior high girls 
I was thinking about doing a short term Bible study with a few girls who are graduating this year. They are "done", so they say, with the high school drama. …

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When do you know you found love 
Well I want to find the perfect guy but I don't know if he's good or not and i don't want someone to call me hot

What I think 
Shelley i think what your doing is ridonkulas also very cool. I'd like to thank you for everything you do I have found myself closer to God now. …

being sad or should i let it go? 
my real mother pretty much abandoned me, 2 months ago we were finally reunited(9 years later) all she has done is lie to me and hurt me, but she acts …

The Peace Symbol 
You know the peace symbol that people are wearing. The first meaning was that it was anti christ, it meant that the symbol was a broken upside down cross, …

what should i do if i really like a boy and im confused and the same time? 
okay i like a boy right and we just started talking like last week and we just started talking on my space and i know this boy he goes to my school and …

Are My Skirts Too Short? 
When is a skirt or pair of shorts too short? At my school the limit is six inches above the knee, and I like to wear about this length. When I'm at home …

Is Myspace really all that wrong. 
Before I start I just wanted to say that I heard you speak at the leadership conference today and you were fantastic. Well I have a myspace and I love …

self esteem prob 
okay so, ive been very worried about my looks lately. i think im going fat! and i cant take it any more. ive been trying to avoid meals every once in a …

confused about guys and love 
hey! er.. okay so, theres this guy, and i like him A LOT! but he just sees right through me! as if i was invisible or something... and im sick of that.. …

GROWING UP IS HARD TO DO. 
Dear Shelley, Hi! Your husband spoke to my school and youth group a little while ago and told us about your website. I was looking around and noticed that …

To be better 
ok my little sis has better fashion and sometimes i copy her and sometime i just feel she notices shes only 12! i feel stupid she somehow gets money …

problem - my brother is separated 
my brother andy and his wife are separated. could it hurt his kids?

Friendship?? 
I love your website and when I had this problem I knew I could come to you. well I have this friend who actually is a bother. She follows me around everywhere …

i need help to get my family together 
how can i get help to get my family back together?

Spiritual Health 
My youth has asked me to come with something about health and present it to the youth and im pretty sure they are referring to physical health but i choose …

Fat?? 
I really need to lose 20 pounds by May and that is only 4 months away. My question is...how do i lose it? How can I have the courage to lose that much? …

Want to stop cutting 
I'm 33 years old and I really have no one to turn to, what should I do? I've hurt myself so many times AND I want to stop. The only person I thought …

Jealousy.. 
My friend who's a year older than me is going to homecoming this year! i was happy for her until i heard she was going with my crush...:( she said …

My mom and the book twilight 
MY MOM IS INTO TWILIGHT WAY TO MUCH... I DON'T WANT HER TO NOT BELIEVE IN GOD ANYMORE BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO DATE A VAMPIRE!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO? ---------------------- …

Job problem =( .. sniff sniff 
Heyy...My name is Carolina I'm 17 years old and i'm looking for a job =( .. I have NO IDEA on how to do it my friends tell me to go out to stores …

Sharing my vision 
I'm Priscilla. I come from Indonesia. I'm a 21 girl. well actually i got this website from my friend and i have just explored all these contents and i …

Help me find my true beauty 
I'm not comfortable with my true beauty help me!!!

How to get his attention? 
I am real good friends with this guy. He used to like me but now he dosen't. Since we are such good friends, he tells me who he likes, which is not me. …

my bff hates me 
i had a friend and we did EVERYTHING together,but all of a sudden i'm a nobody to her, we are not close anymore, but i want to be close again how do i …

My fear of someone dying 
My babysitter Helen is 83 yrs old and when ever i hear or see an ambulance going down my street, i get REALLY SCARED!!! what should i do about this terrible …

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Shyness 
At school, I am always shy...but when I'm at church, and with friends that don't go to my school, I'm always funny and love to talk...why is that? …

Boyfriend help 
Well am with this lad and we have been together for 3 months and we talk about our exs. But I don't like it when he talks about his ex because when he …

Help with cutting myself 
I have a bit of a problem with cutting myself cause of relationships and my family and wanting to be perfect. I have read your advice but for some reason …

What Do I Do? 
What do I do in life if everyone and everything is just setting my anger off and all I want to do is punch people in the face? I am trying to control my …

Life - I don't want to live 
What do I do if I don't want to live anymore...if I am 16 and everyone thinks I am going to have a baby. I don't know how to do anything any more!

Confused about guys 
ok well thrs this guy i dont like rite....well he keeps ticklin me and its annoying....well then i was thinking o great now hes starting to like me...well …

Can you be in a relationship with someone who has not repented 
Can a guy / girl who has repented and is walking with Jesus be in a relationship with a guy / girl who has not repented? Why? Love Genevieve

50 names of Jesus 
Jesus goes by a lot of names in the Bible. Please give me the 50 names that he goes by, you don't have to worry about adding the book. Regards Genevieve …

When is enough - really enough? 
Hi Shelley! I am 27 years old and have been going through a separation and divorce for the past almost two years. I had to move back home with my folks, …

Dating 
I just turned 13 and I want to ask if it's time for me to have a boyfriend...

Eating healthy 
I am 13 years old and I love junk food! I know how bad it is for me but it's hard to cut back... what can help me stop eating junk food. I'm skinny and …

Sex before marriage 
Growing up as a teen I've faced temptation to take it 'further' with my close boyfriend whom I really loved but was unsure whether it was right to have …

Rock Music and Fathers 
My dad does not believe that there is such thing as a Christian rock band. He believes this because rock and roll was "supposedly" the start of rebellion …

What stores do you shop for modest clothes? 
You just spoke at our school and it was real good. I don't really struggle a whole lot with self image but thanks for the dressing tips it really helps …

I am a Christian but still feel empty... 
I feel like I am a strong Christian, but still feel empty inside. How do I get filled up with God? ----------------- ----------------- There could …

Should I be following my role model or following God? 
I recently read a book written by someone whom I admire. The book was really inspirational and discussed things I've been taught please God - being kind …

ADHD makes me useless to God? 
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Over Eating... 
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To Believe or not... 
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What does a bible says about abortion 
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My Eventful Life 
My life is very eventful. When I was five years old I went to China with my mom and dad to adopt my little sister that is now eight years old. A year later …

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