Teenage Cutting - What It Is and How to Get Self Injury Help
"Battle Scars"by Melisa Steele"When I shove you in my vein you suck out all the pain…" This sad and painful quote was found on a self injury help message board. But with teenage cutting and to the teenage cutter, when their body hurts it allows them to forget how much their heart hurts. And that’s not how God wants you to feel. You are a beautiful, wonderfully made child of His and "you are precious and honored in His sight and He loves you!" (Isaiah 43:4) He is always shining in our darkness, although sometimes “the darkness has not understood it” (John 1:5)What is Teenage Cutting?Teenage Cutting is a form of self injury that involves deliberately inflicting wounds and cuts on ones body. It is a serious issue and its victims are held captive in a very dark and lonely cell. Most people who self injure are not trying to commit suicide and are not crazy. They just don’t know how to deal with what’s going on in the inside of them, where as a physical wound is something they can see and gives them something to tend to. They see the physical pain as easier to cope and deal with. Teens that self injure will feel as if they are nothing, that they don’t matter and that no one cares for them or what they are going through. They have a hard time expressing their emotions because the enemy has made them feel ashamed and they cut themselves in an attempt to deal with other problems they are having – to them it is a release. Yes, to its victims cutting releases tension, stress, and anger, to some it is a release for everything. If they are having a bad day or if they feel they have messed up cutting can make everything feel ok and they can stop beating themselves up about it. Besides providing a release cutting will sometimes offer an atonement making them feel as if they have punished themselves for what they did or how they feel. For those experiencing self-hatred touching their wound will remind them of what they have done and that they are not allowed to hate themselves. Their feelings and guilt will seem to float out on the blood leaving them feeling calm. The scars will often help them to feel like their pain is real. To them it is like a battle scar reminding them that they have been through something and no one can tell them otherwise. When they hurt enough to injure themselves it means they were in emotional pain. Deep inside many hide pain. I encourage anyone experiencing these feelings to call to the Lord and He will answer; Cry out to help from Him and He will say, Here I Am (Isaiah 58:9 ) I also want to express that you are not alone. You are never alone, that’s just what Satan wants you to believe. Who is Impacted?Self injury does not discriminate and self injurers come from all walks of life. People who harm themselves can be male, female, straight, gay, or bisexual; they can be doctors, high-school dropouts or high-school students; rich, poor or from any country in the world. Self injury is an addiction that affects 3 million Americans, 2 million of whom purposely cut or burn themselves. Teenage cutting begins at the average age of 14, in fact 90% of self injurers start at roughly this age. More than half of self injurers are victims of abuse, and most report emotionally abusive or neglectful childhoods. The most common adult injurers are in the profession of are teacher, nurse and manager. But "God is your hiding place: He will protect you from trouble and surround you with songs of deliverance." Psalm 32:7 One Girl's Story...Self-Injury Help - How to deal with Teenage CuttingSelf injury is a cycle. Not only is it a way to release emotions, but it can also become a physical addiction as well. That is one reason it can be so hard to quit. Some who have been involved in self injury say they actually feel physical withdrawals when trying to stop. Therefore, like drugs and alcohol, self injury can become an addiction. And as you could have guessed there are better ways to deal with troubles than self-injury cutting and although cutting can be a difficult pattern to break, it is possible. With God all things are possible. (Matthew 19:26) The First Step...The first step with any addiction is to admit you have a problem and need help. I encourage you to come to God and ask for His help. Cry out to Him and share your pain with Him. You may need to ask for forgiveness.... and don't forget about forgiving yourself as well. However, don't allow the enemy to get you caught up in a cycle of shame and feeling bad about yourself. True guilt is different from shame. Shame says, "I'm a bad person" and that's not true. You are loved by God no matter what you've done or what's been done to you. Once you're ready to make a change, you have to decide if you're willing to change directions. Tell SomeoneThe hardest step is telling someone. This will take courage but once you find someone you trust and confide in them you will feel a great sense of relief. If verbally telling someone is too difficult you can always write a note. If the person you tell doesn’t offer assistance, tell someone else. Adults have the tendency to downplay issues and problems often classifying it as just a phase. There are people who will listen. Who can you tell? Here are some ideas of who you can talk to:
There are also free Christian hotlines, Like Door of Hope 4 Teens (1-888-HOPE-307), available to talk to people who understand. Some people choose to use the internet but even though the internet makes possible what hasn't been possible before by bringing people with similar situations together please be careful as there are sites out there whose only intentions are keeping you caught up in the cycle of self injury. You May Benefit from CounselingTrying to figure out the cause of cutting yourself may be tough...
Many people have trouble figuring this part out on their own. But there is no shame in getting professional help to overcome the problem- this does not mean that you are weak! Therapists and counselors are trained to help people discover inner strengths that help them heal. These inner strengths can then be used to cope with life's other problems in a healthy way. There are also churches that offer prayer, encouragement and support groups. The Lord will guide your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6) Work on it, there is a lot to dealing with past hurts and finding better ways to handling life’s stresses. Once you identify what triggers your urge to cutting yourself, make a commitment to make the decision, a promise to yourself that you will not follow through with it but replace it with something else instead. Make plans on what this will be so it’s place for the next time you feel the need. Coping SkillsUrges will pass if you wait them out. The more you wait without giving in, the more your urges will decrease over time so try distracting yourself with something – call a friend, take a shower, play with a pet. Walking is a great way to help with any depression and other forms of exercise provide releases from tension. You may also try writing poetry or drawing, these are great ways to get the feelings on the inside out and that’s the goal. You are on a mission to find a new, healthy release to replace the painful, hurtful one you’ve grown accustomed to. Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy. He who goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying sheaves with him. (Psalm 126:5-6) Click here for a complete list of 117 healthy coping skills ResourcesI don't know all that each of you are going through and the pain you hold inside. But, there are people who do.
How Can I Help My Friend?If you know someone who is struggling with self-injury cutting do not approach them with anger, that is the last thing they need. Do not turn your back on them, they need you...more than you know. Be kinder than usual to everyone you meet for everyone is going through some kind of battle.However, do not feel like you have to carry this burden alone. Make sure to tell a trusted adult (teacher, guidance counselor, youth pastor, etc.) to find help and support for your friend. You are not meant to carry this alone. You are not aloneWe also would like to pray for you and support you. So send us your prayer requests.
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Have you or a friend of yours struggled with cutting or self injury? If so, tell us your story and get encouragement from those who care. Other People's Stories...Click below to read other's stories of how God is at work in their lives. Lost Sometimes I just lay on the ground and cry I just want to die the whole time. I just want to be loved, to hear someone say it ... Friends are great and ...
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Love hurts....
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hey my name is stephanie im am 12 im gonna be 13 next month I'm A Cutter I'm a cutter. I am not crazy. I don't know why but because I cut, apparently everyone thinks I'm crazy. I am not fake. I cut for a reason. I don't cut ...
What is my will to live?
Hi my name is Morgan
PERFEC"SHUN"
I am not a cutter any more..I was once..It's hard to believe that it ever happened to me.. There's more than meets the eye. I'm a 15 year old girl. Not so long ago the smile on my face was real and natural, now it is forced and there is pain behind it. It's funny how things ... i cut myself am 15 i was though of myself as being a happy person i play sports and my friends always say a have a smile on my face .but they dont know the real pain ... My story... Hi my name is Jaymee. I first started self harming when I was 8 I am now 13. I was sexually assualted and just didn't know how to deal with all the emotional ... What I still think was overeacting... Well where do I start? I guess with my dad. My dad tried to kill my mother. For years he tried to hurt her by using me. He would say he isn't going ... I BELIEVE IN MYSELF Hi my name is Arriebelle and I am a jr. in high school. I have a disability call vcf. All of my LIFE I have been bullied and been called ugly, stupid, and ... im not loved never was I've never felt loved. i started to cut my self because my dad and step mom are always saying I'm stupid and stuff my step dad and mom are always yelling ... Tonight was my first time tonight i started cutting, i only have 1 cut and its not very deep but it helped. I feel like no one cares about me or my problems so i decided that i ... morning of tears on Thursday morning (7/21/11) i thought about committing suicide b/c all morning i was bashing myself b/c i cut myself. the only reason i didn't is b/c ... The story about a girl who is lost and needs help I'm 15 years old. And I cut myself because i have a lot of this pain inside me from my horrible childhood and teenage life. I told my best friend and I ... Worthless... I have been a cutter since i was in 6th grade. I am going to be a freshman in high school this upcoming year and i still do it. My friends have tried to ... i cut.. and then guilt just pours over me im not even sure what it is that makes me cut. im 12 almost 13 years old and i cut my wrists. i feel like when i hurt other people, i just feel so bad ...
FEEL ALL ALONE LIKE I HAVE NO ONE SO I CUT.
Hey i wanna share my story,
Pain.
I am in recovery from bulimia and cutting. It's really hard because I haven't cut in a while but today, I just feel so worthless and ugly. My Struggle I was a cutter from December 2009 to just last month and have had an eating disorder for almost a year. It's been really hard, but God's healed me. About ... My Cutting Story I am 14, I do not like my life. There has been so much going on. I notice my parents and friends notice the scars on my arms or other parts of my body,... i cut myself. On the outside i try to act happy when on the inside im desperate and very sad. I believe that im depressed because i am alone. I have found that every ... hiding the scars i was 12 when i first cut myself. i felt i had to be better then my sister because she would make my mom cry and my dad wasnt helping when he decided to ... It never leaves My name is Eric and im fifteen years old. I cut myself one night after having a hurtful conversation with someone I loved. It really wasn't deep, didn'... Mollie My life is so crazy right now. I miss the way it was before. I need held and I need someone to care I have only been cutting for about 3 months but it ... can't stop cutting i cut myself. i dont really no why, but that i thought everyone was mad at me my parents found out and i stopped for a while but i started again i can'... Blackenedandbroken when i was 14 i started cutting because i was getting yelled at by my mom a lot and i didn't know how to handle it. so Christmas eve of 2008 my mom was ... Why must I change? When you pass me in the halls.When you see me at the mall.Do i seem happy? yes.a simple answer.its whats on the outside that counts.its whats been drilled ... I am fading Away i am turning 13 on April 3rd, and my name is Emilyn. I live In Minnesota. i cut myself... i just started doing it. my moms boyfriend for many years has ... So many lies... Won't I ever learn? I'm not sure when it started. I think I was 12 when I started cutting my wrists. I think for me, I believed all of Satan's lies - "I'm not good enough,... How I did it less and less I started doing it in 8th grade i dont remember why, but by a year later i started writing in a journal when i wanted to cut, by writing in the journal ... Hopeless and Hating I've been struggling with depression for what seems to be forever. I think it started around fourth or fifth grade. Since depression runs in my family,...
Myy Storyyy. . . . .Moree Of A NighttMaree. . . .
Ivee Been Cuttinng Myy Selff Sinceee Decemberr 2010, && Cryinng Myy Slerff To Sleep Almostt EVERYY Nightt. I Starvee MySelff. . . .Fatt. Cut for years My mom has always been very stressed out and she always has stressed me out. She is always yelling at me if I cried over my homework, even in 1st grade,... Perfection I don't really know when it started. Middle school? But whenever it did, it continued and got stronger in high school. I don't have one of those stories ... Lonely girl I'm 13 and I cut myself every day like 3 times. My life sucks. I have been molested on a bus when I was 11 and constantly abused by myself. I have mental ...
Love Me for Me, Not for Who you Want Me to Be
Dear Readers,
HELP!!!!!!!!
i'm 16 and i self harm My name is Myoko. Here is my story: It was truly nothing. I had a friend who did it and made me swore NEVER to ever try. But one day I was upset with myself and I also saw her hurt herself ... A Cry For Help! One day I was feeling really bad/sad. I didn't even know what was wrong with me. So i just thought it was my period. I went into the living room and started ...
Through love, loss, and new love
A fair while ago, I lost my love. Though a bit older than me, she showed me everything that a 15 year old girl would hope to know. She showed me
help me please
hey, im a girl who is fifteen, i come across to everyone as a happy person, but inside im getting ripped into pieces! I hate what i have become to escape what i hated being i cut. i cry. i get stares, comments, i am rejected. i need help. i want to stop, want to change. i cant do it by myself. i am going to die. i need a friend.... my life as a teen girl with divorced parents When I was 3 my parents were divorced. my dad had left us and I went over there on weekends but it never felt the same because I felt like I had to make ... i don't know what is wrong with me I started cutting at the start of 2010, it was january. I was in the car with my dad and i seen these people from my old school, they drove me out of that ... unspoken life I am an 18 year old teen girl who has been cutting since the age of 9. i have cut for 9 years now and i have tried so hard to stop but it seems just when ... im alive today hey im 15 i started cutting at 12 then i stopped for awhile. then two months ago i started again b/c my bf broke up with me. i took a lot of pills and ... The Pain of Luke-Warm I have been through a lot in the 14 years i have been alive, and i have seen my friends and been with them when they were going through worse. Most, if ... ADDICTED i'm 14 and Ive been cutting myself for a really long time now and i cant seem to stop myself. i like the way i feel when i cut myself (relieved), but i ...
Please Help Me I Feel All Alone
I am a 12 year old girl and im bisexual i love punk/rock music (mainly green day) and i have amazing friends, The Blades Haven - Teenage Cutting My name is Kaitlyn and I started cutting at the age of 12. My home is not a pleasant one to live in. My father is an alcoholic and my mother is ignorant ...
Reading this makes me sad... :(
I'd love to to able to give all of you a big hug and make everything be better in your lives, but I can't and it makes me really sad. IM NOT ENOUGH im 14 and i've been cutting for some time now and i do not understand why i cant stop but im pretty sure i know why i started. i have no friends anymore ... never good enough hi, i've been struggling with my life & the pressure involved in it for some time now. i never knew what to do or how to make myself feel better. but one ... Behind the Blood There are a multitude of terms for what I did; self-harm, self-mutilation, and cutting to name a few. Wikipedia defined it as the intentional, direct injuring ... my friend told on me my friend told my school guidance counselor and when i went to see her she said you told me those were cat scrathes those are not are they i said no so ... My Fight for Life Although starting High School was scary and made me question my self-discipline, I started it with a smile on my face and God in my heart. I was a fun ... Red tears... Hello! I'm portuguese. I was searching about self-injury and I found this site. I am a self injurer, unfortunately. I started to self mutilate on this ... Smokey Lonesome ): I am 16 years old. I will be 17 in August. I was born in 1993. Its like almost one o'clock in the morning but i can't sleep. I always find myself being ... Lost When I was 12, I had the world. I had the greatest friends and everything was perfect. My aunt was in high school then. She would tell me everything and ... DO YOU LIVE IN A SHADOW OF SOMEONE ELSE I STARTED TO CUT MYSELF ABOUT A YEAR AGO WHEN I WAS 12 . I REMEMBER THAT I STARTED AT SCHOOL IN ENGLISH CLASS. NOW AM 13. BUT WHEN I FEEL OUT OF CONTROL,...
cut the pain away
i guess by writing this it might make me feel better for a minute... A new hope.. My mom was sick with brain cancer from the time she was pregnant with me until I was three. After she died, my Dad didn't understand or know how to cope ... Pain I started to cut myself from the age of 12. I used to get bullied alot and I never even knew what self harm was until I had done it. I can just remember ... memories ok, so i'm not exactly sure if this is where it belongs or not, but i'm not sure where else it should go and since i'm a recovering cutter, and this kinda ... Broken- God put me back together... I was 11 when I started cutting and now I am 13..... It all started when my only sister ran away from home.. My brother went to jail.. I lost 3 family ... Ideas to help you not cut I used to cut when I was in high school. I am 25 now and have not done it since then. But I have to live with the scars. I just wanted to share some ... its not for attention, its a feeling. Well where do I start? i found this site while researching cutting for my Health class, but there was no need for research. i knew all about cutting, i ...
Foolish Little Freshman Girl
I found this website because I needed to get my story out there with it being anonymous. And I thank whoever put up this site. Scared To Be Me I'm fifteen and I cut myself. that's my story. Did I mention that my friends make fun of me for it? they tease me, call me stupid, make me show other people,...
i cut and i really do hate myself..
so im 13 and in 8th grade. i found this site because i typed in cutting on google.. Pain to heal pain My life has been rough and confusing. I started cutting and burning myself when I was 12. I'm 21 now. It's not an everyday thing or even a weekly activity,... i hate when i cut i always cut because my parents are going through the divorce stage it hurts and i hate that i cut
38 and cutting again.
I am 38 years old, I have 3 kids, a great husband, and a pretty good life. So why do I cut? And why do I hate myself for doing it? BLOODY LOVE IS MY ANSWER I am 14 years old and my cuts aren't very big, not at all. What I would do was take a little blade and run it over my skin several times. I didn'... There was no other way, but with God, maybe I can go on. I had a proper rubbish childhood. Like my dad used to batter me, my mum, and my sisters all the time. I could never do anything right. From being about ... Once You Start Cutting, It's hard to stop. It all started in the 7th grade. It's a long story. I stopped in 8th grade for a bit. I was cutting on my upper legs, my first attempt was a razor blade ... Cutting, Suicide and Finding Freedom Back in seventh grade, I got into an awful fight with my only friend. I fell into a deep depression, so I wanted to end it all. I started cutting my wrist,... i cut my self to take away the pain I started cutting my self when i was diagnosed with ocd and a sign of Schizophrenia , ocd is the worst thing that has ever happened to me its ruined my ... a friend who tried to be there my name is Katelyn and i have a friend named Josh. he is a cutter. i had a crush on him scene 5th grade and were in 9th, so if you can count that's 4 years ...
My (Long) Story
It started out as biting myself. I'm not sure why, but whatever. I craved the pain. Suicide of a close friend. Once upon a time, there was a little town called erlanger, with a little street named Center street. There was a little girl named Krista. She was a annoying ...
I cut.. yer ...... please help me....
I know this may be long, but i need to tell the full story, to someone. help to stop cutting please! I don't get why I cut myself. I'm 13 and cut myself alot. I have so many scars up my leg and on my wrist, it's gross. When I'm mad I cut myself and it ... My Sister Cuts Herself I am a foster child and i have a foster sister who cuts herself. she has been through a lot and i wish i knew how to help her! sometimes i hate her, but ... cutting and the pain hi my name is corina and i am 13 year old and in the 8th grade i have been looking for way to stop the cutting but it is hard my friend said to stop and ...
My life my pain and self injury
This is my story.
i cant help it!
it all started one xmas, i've sucessfully stopped cutting when i was about 14, i started to get really depressed. so i found cutting my own body as an escape. nobody ever knew. i was always happy. i have lots ... i felt more alone than ever it all started one day at a friends house we were in her basement and there was a shattered mirror on the ground well me ex boyfriend/best guy friend was ... Taking It All Away My name is Victoria. When I was in seventh grade I started cutting. I'm not exactly sure what the reason was for the beginning of my cutting. I had ... I cut sometimes.. My name is Kimberly, i am 17 years old, i started cutting last year, but i have always been really depressed about my life and my past, when i was growing ... I'm Going Crazy... My name is Brianna im 12 years old. I have lost enough in my life now i feel like i should be lost. I cut every night , and as it slits my skin it feels ... My cutting story It started in August when I was almost 13. It will be two years this August. I don't remember how it all started, but whenever I was sad or depressed I ...
My Teen Cutting Story
I am 14 and I have cut for the past year. How many scars will be left? Thirteen, outcasted, alone. Everything was going wrong, it all just seemed so hopeless. I remember the day when I injured myself for the first time. I ... My years as cutter, and my journey through When I was in fifth grade I cut for the first time, and only that one time. But once I started sixth grade, I began doing it more regularly. I went through ... I Feel Too Much... I was 10 years old when my mother asked me if I thought she should divorce my father. I didn't know what divorce was. After she explained it to me, I thought ...
cutting my self makes me feel better temporarily
Im Jessica, im 12 years old. Growing up with pain - my cutting addiction My name is Katherine and I'm 16. Growing up, my parents weren't always the nicest to each other. My past bugs me a lot and sometimes I feel jealous when ... Self Injury (SI) trying to recover I have been working extremely hard for the past few months to quite cutting. I have thrown out my raiser blades that I used to cut and am now doing it ... A New Way to Deal I was molested by my grandfather from the time I was 7 till the age of 10. I never really thought it affected me till i got into high school and saw the ... A cutter's life Ever since i can remember I used some form of SI (self injury) to cope with my feelings. I was always the girl who was "perfect" and always had a "smile"... My cutting story I did it under pressure of having to be there for so many people and not being there for myself or giving the people the impression I was okay , when I ... Secrets Not told Hi, Im a "cutter" I guess you could say,It surprises myself how I ended up on this website. I think its because Im tired of crying and cutting all the ... Cutting - what once was my silver savior my name is Stephanie and Im 15 years old.Most of my childhood memories consist of mommy popping pills and daddy yelling, but then someone would take ... Hurt - a cutter's story ok lets see i started cutting when i was like 13 and it was becuz my step grandfather had molested me and my sister and i was only 5 and then came my cousin ... my cutting story i am 13 and i started cutting this year. I had just gotten back from spending the summer with my aunt. I had a hard, stressing summer and I had also gained ... DONT GIVE UP! i know that its long but just read it. I AM A PAINFUL HEARTBROKEN CUTTER OF 4 YEARS. I HAVE CUT ALMOST EVERYDAY. ITS LIKE I CANT EVER FIND HAPPINESS IN MY LIFE ANYMORE. I HAVE LOST MY FATHER ... Six years of teenage cutting My name is Jennifer, I'm 19. I started cutting myself when I was 13. I had been through some traumatic issues in my life at a very young age. I didn'... Self harm...you can beat it! I first started cutting when i was 12 years old, my mums marriage had just broken up with my step-dad due to a very violent relationship. Our family was ... cutting I'm 14 years old and I started cutting when I was about 12. my parents fight all the time. my dad has been kicked out of my house at least three times,... My secrets I'm Steph. I'm 13. The first time I thought of suicide, I was 9. A year later, the thought came again. At 11, suicide was all I thought about. I went hiking ... Confused teenage cutter I've been cutting every since I was 13 February 14th of 2008. I started cutting because my parents never listened to me and would always talk bad about ... Self-Inflicted Misery I am 20 years old now, and self-harm is still part of my life. It's the worst feeling knowing that relapse is just around the corner and that it won't ... Why do I cut myself? I hate my life why? do I do this to my self is like if i want to die but the true is that i do not want to die. people ask me why? why i do this...i tell them 'why - because ... Cutting I am 13 and my mom and dad abuse me and have ever since I can remember. I cut myself because it makes me feel good and I can forget about all of my emotional ... Cutting! I started cutting when I was 13 years old. I did it because I thought I had tried everything & nothing was helping. I knew for a fact cutting wasn't right,... I'm a teenage cutter For as long as I can remember I've always been the odd one out. In elementary school I was picked on daily & it only got worse when I got into middle school.... My self harm i first started self harming when i was 15. i had a bad experience when i was young and it kept on playing on my mind. i felt as if everybody hated me ... I cut myself to see who cared I used to cut myself, but it wasn't just because I did not know how to deal with my emotions, it's because I wanted to see who cared enough to stop me.... My cutting struggle I'm 15 years old I've been depressed since I was 12ish I started cutting when I was 13. I was in a bad place my granddad was sick, my mom had been told ... Lost - my cutting story I am so lost right now. I moved when I was ten and it was a horrible experience. I fell into a deep depression that I've been in for 4 years now. I'm only ... My story about self harm I am 16 years old and I started self harming myself at 14. When I was 14 I was sexually abused by my cousin. It was the worst thing in my life. On top ... I am a regular cutter It started at the beginning of 8th grade. My mom had an affair and I was left with my dad brother and sister. I fought a lot with my dad and siblings.... My teenage cutting story I'm Catherine & I'm currently fifteen years young. I started hurting myself when I was thirteen, after an out of control night of sneaking out of my house ... Struggling with self injury I'm struggling with self-injury. Actually I want stop doing it, but it's not that easy. At the moment I've got the feeling that I'll never be free. And ... Im afraid of what im doing to myself My name is Libby. And i cut myself. Ive always had a horrible life. mum and dad split up when i was born and i didnt see my dad for 3/4 years after that.... OCD Cutter My name is Willow, I'm fourteen, soon fifteen, in high school, and have been cutting since the seventh grade. I can't even remember exactly why I started ... I need someone to talk to Well I started cutting at age 12, Im 14 and still cut. It started when i had nobody to talk to, was always doing things wrong, and shut out by everyone.... desperate Well erm yeah hello, im a 14 year old girl from England and ive never really been good about talking my feelings out,to anyone.i,ve been selfharming for ... Nobody Hi. I'm nobody. I've been self harming for a while. Cuts, burns, anything that brings the pain. I've gone five months without doing it, but I started again.... Scars you left behind. I've had a bad past. at 12 years old i was raped and nearly drowned. No one knew. I started cutting when i was 13, not only from the memories of my past,...
is there hope??
i have stopped cutting for 2 years nears after starting in my teens....im now nearly 40..... Lost My Balance At 13, loneliness, unwanted, picked on target by my own family members lead me into thinking I wasn’t loved and my presence is disturbing… shortly after ... I did this to be in control, now it's controlling me. I am now 14, but when I was 13, I began cutting. The first time I did it, it was only 4 times, just to see if I could. The next day, I did it more. Then ... Divorce led to cutting It all started when my parents got divorced. I was 10 and the first thing I remember was my mom telling me, "Look at your father. He's so disgusting." I ... I cut because I'm unhappy So I come from a great family. I have loving parents and siblings who I know would do anything for me. I'm the baby of the family at seventeen years old.... cut for first time I cut myself for the first time yesterday. I do it out of anger and only one person is actually trying to help me. Although its only been a day it feels ... Pain, Pain, My Best Friend I was bullied ever since Kindergarten. I'm in ninth grade now.. I have been put down my whole life, I have been called ugly, fat, worthless, I have been ... My Best Friend is in Danger I have a friend who needs help. She has a rough time in school and at home. She's a freshman and she happens to be in the school's marching band with me.... self harm :( Its mostly because of my dad. Well, used to be. I'm 13 years old and I started in september last year, my dad always blamed me for everything and it made ... Cutting and Cancer When I was 13, i found out my mother had an incurable cancer. It broke me, but i tried not to show it.The pain hurt so much i decided to inflict my own ... Normal to not so normal I am 14 years old. I was 13 years old and I was just a normal teenager like everybody else. It was a school day and I was at home ill. The problems started ... Just started cutting I'm a new cutter. Today to be exact. I don't know why I do it. I use a needle, and the pain isn't THAT bad. I know I will do it again. I DONT KNOW HOW ... I don't know anymore my name is hope...i cut my freshmen year in high school because a girl i knew did it and it seemed cool and i liked the attention people gave me....i never ... Scarred but Beautiful So many girls that I know hurt themselves in some way, whether it is by cutting, scratching, not eating, or some other destructive behavior. When I try ... a girl lost Shes so young so quiet no one understands her shes not popular not as pretty as others but she has true beauty hidden deep inside she walked the halls ... Once a cutter, never again. Help is here I was once a cutter.I felt no one truly understood me and no one cared enough to try and understand. I started at thirteen my freshman year of high school.... cutting :( im 13 and i started cutting myself when my boyfriend at the time start treating me like dirt. he never talked to me, only when it was good for him and ... Working on it... I started my battle with depression in 8th grade. That was the first time I had thoughts about cutting and suicide. I made it through that period with ... Encouragement for Cutters I am Bipolar. I was sexually abused when I was very young. I was adopted. I had Anorexia. I was addicted to pain pills. I was a cutter, and I have attempted ... i helped myself Im fifteen years old and was cutting for three and a half years after losing a friend from suicide and one overdose i had to stop so i got a counselor ... need to get out im 13 and ive been cutting for about year now but i have self-injured for as long a i can remember. i started cutting about a year ago because the scraching ... It gets better. I'm 13 years old. I started cutting roughly over a year ago. I was stressed with everything and needed some control in my life. I felt rejected, and given ... Emily's Story: Bullying led me to my breaking point! At a young age I was taught "Love doesn't always work out" my parent's divorced, leaving me and my 4 year old twin brother to make sense of why Mommy left ... why i cut i started cutting when i was 13. during that time i was like a trash can for people to be mean to me. first it started off as suicide. one day i came home ... tonight she told me I am an Aunt, my neice told me about someone who cuts! I told her (my niece) please let me or someone to know,it will save their life. I am 20 years from ... things will get better. cutting was like a drug to me and i knew i could count on it. but what i didn't know was it was hurting my family to see me this way and they were trying ... Compass I have a protractor and compass set. I don’t know where the protractor is anymore, but I know exactly where I’ve stashed the compass, because that’s what ...
this is my story
im 20 years old,. sigh This is just shocking and extremely painful to see how many girls engage in cutting. It hurts my heart very deeply and brings tears to my eyes.... Praying ... my black hole is my life well i started cutting 2 years ago. it started when i broke a glass doll by mistake and i was picking up the pieces when i cut myself by mistake. when ... Idk I have cut for 5 years and i have tried to stop but i cant. It all started when i was molested at age 10 thsn i used it as a get away from my anorexia.... I struggled for three years Every move I made in that house always seemed to make things worse. Mommy and daddy fighting all the time, my brother, Ryan, just going into his room. Until ... Down the wrong road in life! When i was 13, i found out for sure that i was raped at a younger age. i couldnt realy remember it, i just had nightmare after nightmare. So when I found ...
Being sane is a full time work
First of all I want to say: You don't want this.
I want to tell someone but i cant break my parents hearts again.
Ok well this is kind of hard for me to come out with as i never tell anyone anything but i do want help now, Perfect Girls and Lonely Worlds When I was in my freshman year of high school, some of the girls in my class cut themselves. This was nothing new, of course. I've seen it all happen. Girls ... Too much pain in life! I am only 10 years old but i cut, badly.I went through puberty in third grade and i started getting acne. My brother makes fun of me for having zits but ... Life is so hard to live, but if you set a goal you can achieve it.... I was 13 when i began to started to cut. My adoptive parents didnt know I was cutting until one day I wore a short sleeve shirt. I would always where long ... abuse to self harm i was only 13 years old when i was first sexually abused by one of my dads mates from work. in the beginning i thought it was all my fault because i used ... angels story of cutting im 16 and Ive been cutting since i was 13. i stopped when i was 14 but recently started again. just a few weeks ago my mum found the cuts on my wrist ... Cutting and burning myself I started cutting and burning myself at the age 12 almost 13. I started cutting and burning myself because I thought no one was there for me. I thought ... The whole story... It all started when my grandma died one night,I was being mean to my parents and was having friend trouble. I reacted so badly because it had been happening ... yup - freedom from cutting i dont do it anymore but i started cutting myself when i was in 6th grade and didnt stop until i was in eight grade. i already know why i started and ... Stop teenage cutting When I first saw him, he did look different. He looked secluded, alone, and I want to help him. Im a Christian, and I wanted to help him find God too, but ... God Eases the Pain Well when I first came to this section of the website I was very scared and hesitant to click this link. I had just moved to a new school, a Christian ... Family and God Saved Me from Cutting I used to cut. it was so hard on me emotionally not just physically. I tried my best to keep it a secret. But my sister ended up finding out and telling ... living my life on an edge my life began bad. the rest of my life was worse. As a young child i was physically abused by my mother and as a release i started cutting. it felt good ...
It started with a Cross...
My name is Abbi. Im 17 now, and even though I am still young I have been through what seems to me a life time of troubles. What is wrong i was sexually molested when i was 9 and my mom hates me and doesn't want me around. so when i was 11 i started to cut so then i was put on meds and that ...
Pain
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