Boys!

by tomboy
(newyork)

i really like this boy, he's like super cute. we talk a lot and text a lot and he always acts differently around me so i think he likes me, but i'm not exactly sure and then my bfff likes him 2 and i feel like she's competition. what 2 do hlp!

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by: Seb

Im not saying you should do this. but I'll tell you what I did. I was dating this 17 yr. old recently. hes a senior and im a freshman. When we met, everything seemed perfect. I fell in love with him at first sight. But I saw him before we were introduced. He was on the wayyyyy other end of the room and I could barely see him. But somehow I fell in love. He liked me too. When we shook hands I saw a sparkle in his eye. :) The whole day I thought he didnt like me and liked this other girl. At the dance that night he was dancing with me and my friend. He seemed to be looking at some other girl so I thought... "He doesnt like me, of course not. No one ever likes me." And then slow music came on and I walked over to sit with my friend. Then I stopped. I heard my name being called. When I turned around, there he was. In the darkness under the shining colorful disco ball. He asked me if I wanted to dance. I could not believe it. I said "I'll step on your feet and embaress you..." and he disagreed and came closer. He taught me how to dance and oh my gosh it was so magical. It was my first dance with a guy. After all and all we somehow started dating. At my church they were talking of giving your life to God and letting Him have control. And giving Him the area of dating too. I gave God my life of my own free will and the dating too. I asked God to lead me where I should be. After awhile I got this feeling of sadness. I have found that my boyfriend was making me upset because we hadnt seen eachother in over 5 months and could never get together. And in a certain area he made me cautious. Things came about and I kept thinking I had to break up with him. Like God wanted me too. But I really didnt want to becuz I love him more than anything. We seemed meant to be, everything fell together so perfectly. EVERYTHING. Then I felt like a horrible person and my preacher called my house one night... he thought I was going to kill myself becuz of a fb status I wrote. I had a talk with my parents and they showed me that my boyfriend and I were not in a good relationship. "unhealthy". I broke up with him a wk. ago. I hated doing it, but I knew I had too. And after I did, I felt a sence of relief. I have more time for Bible reading and Im not worried all the time. My mom has told me she notices a difference in my behavior. I believe if him and I are meant to be, then God will bring us back together. But for now Im going to follow God and forget boys. If Im meant to be with someone God will take care of that. I need to be patient. God has a great plan, and it makes sence that a great plan would take some time. Forget boys for now, I know it wont be easy. Go to God and ask Him what you should do. If youre meant to be with someone let God handle that. Search God and He will give you what you need... in time.
-seb

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