Getting Horny

by Shyann
(Salem,Ohio)

im a 12 year old girl and when i see somthing sexual or when my boy friend rubs my chest i tend to get horny and say stuff that i dont mean is this normal for a girl who just turned 12?....

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nope
by: niki

eeew. absolutely not. first of all, if u even need a bf at that age, he most certainly should not be touching u. remember who u r and who u ultimately belong to: God.

sry if i seem harsh, but u should really reevaluate ur priorities

praying for u :)

Niki (15)

wow
by: sam

girl, that boy has no business touching u... u shudnt have to b worrying about this.. i wud break up with him if he keeps doing it. it implies sexual things. i wud get out of that relationship as soon as possible or sit down with the guy and explain your morals and boundaries firmly. if he doesnt listen i wud say no. that its the end. sry hunny but i agree with niki. i'll b praying for u to b strong. :) God bless.
-sam

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by: Gigi

It's hormones. What's making you feel this way is hormones. It is normal to have raging hormones for a boy at this age, all the way through college until your hormones settle down, but you need to stop this in its tracks.
You have to be able to control your hormones and not let yourself get into a type of situation like that. We ALL make mistakes, some of us flip through PlayBoy magazines then regret it, some of us watch porn, some of us are "peepers" and watch people undress, idk, but we all will or have been going through these things. We all mess up, but that doesn't mean we can't KEEP messing up.
When I was 10, I didn't understand these new feelings, and I played a very bad internet game. After my twelfth birthday a year and a half ago, I broke down crying and in shame in front of my mom, telling her everything and confessing, but you know what she told me? "It's okay," she said. She told me that God tells us when we mess up, "Its okay, you're completely forgiven," but that doesn't mean we can do it again.
You need to understand that its just hormones that you're feeling, that's teenage years, but you can't act upon those hormones or you're going to get yourself in a completely worse situation when you're older.

Hope this helps :)

Normal, but not really okay.
by: Ali

Yes, like Gigi said, it is very normal for us(tweens and teens)to have strong, weird, un-understandable, not always meaningful emotions. And we should be very careful not to let them guide our lives. They are undependable, and passing things.

And don't let a guy even anywhere near touching you there! Sorry if this is harsh sounding, but it's a good. idea. It is wrong for him to even want to do that, and I would suggest you either break up immediately, or state that you do not want him doing that(and if he keeps on, you should leave him). He is no5t respecting you, or your body.
You are too young to be having a bf anyways, it's not like you two are going to get married.. You are just giving out a little piece of your heart to this guy, instead of saving it all for your future husband.

And again, like Gigi said, do not give into the inappropriate feelings. A year ago I started my hormones, and did not do a very good job guarding my soul. I started looking on the internet at very bad things, and I greatly regret every picture I looked at. I kept that up til almost three months ago, and then I broke, and went into a depression where I was too ashamed to even speak to God.. It took me a few weeks before recovering, and accepting forgiveness.
And now I look back at it and thing at all the sadness, and hurt, and alonness I could have avoided! If only I had not given into that weird-hormone feeling that I had telling me that I ENJOYED looking at that stuff.

So ya, watch out.. above almost everything, guard your heart. Do what you know is RIGHT, not what you think would be fun. And with everything, ask God for guidance, and wisdom to do His will.

I'll be praying for you, hun. (:
-Ali (age 13)

Don't
by: Anonymous

In the Bible it says that your body is a temple of God. And to have a clean and Holy mind you need to get rid of everything sexually. That means when something inapropriate is on the internet or t.v. have self control and turn the channel or go to a diffrent web site. Second off don't take this the wrong way but you don't need a boyfriend at 12. And if he rubs your chest or any other part of your body that needs to be private tell him to keep his hands off you it dosen't matter what tone of voice then tell an adult.---------------------------------------
This is what's inside his mind:
"I'm going to rub her chest and see what she does"
"She just said nasty stuff! Sweet!"
" I'll do it again soon"
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If he is able to do that to you now he will eventually have or force you to have sex with him. So dump him! Once you make these changes change your mouth; pray to God to help you control your mouth.And please don't use the term "horney" use innapropriate instead. Hope this helped.

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