Home
What's New
Do This Challenge
True Beauty
The Problem
Body Image
Inner Beauty
Self Esteem
Anorexia
Eating Disorders
Cutting
Sex & Dating
Truth About Love
Fashion
Take this Quiz
The Good Test
Ask Shelley!
Poems
Tell Your Story
Bible Study
Prayer Requests
Video Podcast
Resources
About Shelley
Shelley's Book
Contact Us
Site Map
FREE Downloads
Free Wallpaper
Get Involved!
Store
Free Book
Free Webinar
Audio Podcasts

[?] Subscribe To This Site

XML RSS
Add to Google
Add to My Yahoo!
Add to My MSN
Subscribe with Bloglines

Anorexia in Teenage Girls

The Inner War of Girls with Anorexia

by Melisa Steele

anorexia in teenage girls

Anorexia in teenage girls is a growing issue these days. Inside one out of every hundred young women there is a war being fought; the war of anorexia, where its victims are dying to be thin.

What is Anorexia?

Anorexia in teenage girls is a dangerous eating disorder that involves self-starvation. It is both a mental and physical condition and despite popular belief is not about food. It involves extreme emotions, behaviors and attitudes surrounding weight. A person who is suffering from anorexia fears being fat and is in a constant pursuit of being thin. They also fear losing control and this is the way that has formed for them to cope with their issues.

Girls with anorexia are usually living with low self-esteem and perfection issues. They feel the need to control their emotions and their surroundings. All of their self-esteem begins to hinge on how they look and what they weigh.

Media Influence on Anorexia

media influence on anorexia graphic

In our society being extremely thin is a standard of beauty. Sometimes being thin is considered a standard of happiness, success, and even control. I was watching a show on TV not too long ago where a man was accusing people who were not thin, of being weak and having no self-control. What message was being sent out to the millions of other people who viewed this?

Now take a look at this quote from super model, Trya Banks when she did an interview with People magazine - "I get so much mail from young girls who say, “I look up to you, you're not as skinny as everyone else, I think you're beautiful," she told People. "So when they say that my body is 'ugly' and 'disgusting,' what does that make those girls feel like?"

The media influence on anorexia also goes deeper. The media tells us we’re not thin enough, not happy enough and not in control enough. But the images being sent to us are unrealistic, unhealthy and most of the time unattainable...and don’t forget most of the images in print have been airbrushed to hide flaws.

Every day we are exposed to about 400-600 images, sometimes more. One out of every eleven of these ads will be for a beauty product. And the models that we are seeing in these advertisements are 25% less than their ideal weight. This also happens to be an increase from 10 years ago when the average model weighed 8% less than her ideal weight.

See more national statistics for anorexia

The media constantly sends us messages that we are just not thin enough, that we’re not happy because we weigh too much. They take it as far as they can too by criticizing on models and actresses when they gain even a little bit of weight making it out to be a big deal.

Anorexia Causes & Triggers

While the media definitely plays a role on how we view ourselves, anorexia in teenage girls has other causes as well.

Anorexia is a way of coping with what’s going on in a teen’s life. Stress, pain, anger, acceptance, confusion and fear can all trigger this eating disorder as part of the anorexia causes. The goal they are trying to reach is one of trying to make their whole life better.

Another trigger for girls with anorexia is family environment. Families can play a huge role on each other. Some families are over protective and smothering which can create a need or rather a demand for independence. Some families are criticizing of weight or in other areas, or are rigid and even abusive. Some younger people do not feel safe in their own homes, they don’t know where to turn or what to do and the need to find a way to deal with what’s going on in their lives.

Life transitions such as a break up, a divorce, death of a loved one, failure at school or at work are all stressful incidents that need to be dealt with.

Genetic factors can also play its part in contributing - anorexia in teenage girls occurs eight times more often in people who have relatives with the disorder.

More Help for Teen Girls...

Shelley has written a book specifically for teen girls...and this book could change your life or a teen girl you know!! Find out more now!

Bring Shelley to speak to your group, church or school! Shelley's openness and vulnerability as she shares her own story of hope and healing will inspire and encourage you. Get started now!

Other Anorexia Articles

Anorexia Tips - Getting Help!

National Statistics for Anorexia with Charts

Anorexia symptoms - signs of anorexia

Other Resources for Anorexia

Check out this free bible study and accountability from Setting Captives Free called, "In His Image."

You may also want to check out this website www.yourstory.info where others share their stories of struggling with anorexia and overcoming it.

Check out this thought provoking anorexia video




In a World that Idolizes Outer Beauty...
Display Your True Beauty!

T-Shirts

True Beauty Tshirt

True Beauty T-Shirts
$16.95 and up

Buttons

True Beauty Tshirt

True Beauty Buttons
$2.65 and up

Mugs

True Beauty Tshirt

True Beauty Mugs
$13.95 and up

Bags

True Beauty Tshirt

TrueBeauty Bags
$11.95




You are not alone

We also would like to pray for you and support you. So send us your prayer requests.



Share Your Story...

Have you or a friend of yours struggled with an eating disorder? If so, tell us your story and get encouragement from those who care.

Enter the Title Here

Writing Your Story Here... [ ? ]

Upload A Picture (optional) [ ? ]

Add Picture Caption (optional) 

Author Information (optional)

To receive credit as the author, enter your information below.

Your Name

(first or full name)

Your Location

(ex. City, State, Country)

Submit Your Contribution

Check box to agree to these submission guidelines.


(You can preview and edit on the next page)

Other People's Stories...

Click below to read others stories of how God is at work in their lives.

Anorexia Essay  I don't have anorexia nor do I have the ED, But I am self aware about my body image, I'm not to happy about it either.

I came across this site while ...

way to much weight loss  ok im 12 and about to be 13. im 5ft2 and just 2 days ago i lost 6 pounds I am now 77.2 pounds and i use to be 83 pounds I dont know whats wrong with me ...

hiya i am leigha  well hello to every one that reads this i am mia lennon and am gonna tell you my story about anorexia. i was getting a little fat so i knew i had to do ...

LOVE WHO U ARE!!!  I REMEMBER ME BEING IN 8 GRADE I ALWAYS USE TO COMPERE MY SELF WITH THE OTHER GIRLS THAT HAD I NICE BODY THAN ME, EVEN THOUGH I WAS SKINNY.. I USE TO HATE ...

this is who i am: my battle with anorexia  anorexia, a medical term, a statistic, a label. its so well known, so real, but it is apart of so many lives. for some, its a daily battle, for others,...

Wow...  when i was born my mom and dad werent married, my mom was 17. she kept me . i hardly see my dad i have 4+ siblings i dont even know... i've moved 6 times....

ana is my foe  I used to battle ana for yrs when I was younger and eventually said enough was enough, until recently. For me this time it was a control issue that turned ...

Concern for a christian friend who is not eating  I want to give her a word from the bible to ensure her faith in her beauty to remove satan's strong hold on her. she has image issues, i hate seeing her ...

Too Young  For a long time I've noticed how skinny my cousin Sara was. Ever since I was about 10 I say she was very skinny. I wanted to be like that. But,...

The life of that girl....  i've been through anorexia 2 times in my life.
6th grade.
8th grade.

6th grade-i was never really told i was fat. but when i would walk by people....

whats going on?  k..so my name is noelle and i was 12 years old when i chose to stop eating. but my family were the kind of people who loved to eat but i couldnt stand ...

Your my best friend ana  It all started when i was 13. At first i was just a normal girl. I played volleyball i hung out with friends and i ate normally. Then my coach gave me ...

I am dealing with an eating disorder  My name is Jessica and I have struggled with my weight for all my life. I'm only 12 and have decided that being Anorexia is the answer. I am tired of being ...

Someone I know who I think is anorexic  I know a teenage girl whom does not consider herself but anorexic, but is. She pigs out every once in awhile, but then cries afterward and constantly looks ...

When I Got Popular  When I got to middle school, all I wanted to do was hang out with the 'cool girls'. They were skinny, beautiful, athletic, and they had such healthy appetites....

My Boyfriend pushed me over the edge  I am 13 and my boyfriend was the same age.
And from the beginning we were always together.
We spent everyday together and every minute.
And then he ...

help!! my friends think i might have a eating disorder  hi, i came on this website to look more into eating disorders and anorexia and what can cause this. Me and my boyfriend broke up after a year and a half ...

A Different World Inside of Me  My name is Elana. I am 16 years old and i have suffered from anorexia for 3 years. From the way things are going now, i will be suffering from this addiction ...

Stress, Depression, ANOREXIA  One of my very good friends was going through a very tough time. she was very stressed. her parents were never there for her and nobody really seemed to ...

Thin but sooo tired and weak  I want to be thin but not eating makes me weak and tired. Can you give me tips?

I'm too thin  Ever since my dad told me about this...i have been trying to get over 80 pounds. But i just can't and im afraid.

Over weight and skinny people  I am not anorexic but, i am skinny... i have people telling me that i am too skinny... NO i am not sick i am just skinny and it really makes me feel insecure ...

My battle with anorexia   Striving to be noticed was a big part of my life. I am competitive and I wanted perfection, especially when it came to my appearance. Unfortunately I ...

Anorexia: It's Never Too Early To Stop  I developed anorexia... gradually and secretly. But after about 8 months, I was so sick of it... that I found myself lying on an open windowsill, crying ...

Please tell me whats happening to me  Can someone tell me if I have an ED? I eat a diet bar for breakfast, no lunch, and a little dinner. Then I'll eat a sweet but feel extremely guilty. I ...

You're Beautiful the way you are.  Okay, im 14 i know all the ups and downs of high school. Sometimes its great, but sometimes it sucks. Being a teen should be a happy time in your life....

I just want to be in control  my name is hailey,
im 15 years old and 5'7. ive never been the kind of girl who was super self concious about my body, or obsessed over what i ate, but ...

Anorexia  hey I'm Hannah's friend Amy and she is anorexic.T he first time i realized she went anorexic was one day at cheer leading practice. I was so worried about ...

When I said I didnt want to be like the stars in magazines, I finally wasnt lying to myself.  Since I was in grade six, I had been throwing up anything I ate. This all started because my mother would call me fat. In grade eight it got worse. I began ...

My battle with Anorexia   Striving to be noticed was a big part of my life. I am competitive and I wanted perfection, especially when it came to my appearance. All I wanted was ...




Return from Anorexia in Teenage Girls to Teen Beauty Tips Homepage

footer for anorexia in teenage girls page