why is sex a bad thing if you have it too soon?

I have not had sex yet, just to get that out of the way...but i dont know why sex is a bad thing if you have it to soon? I know that i am going to wait till at least in late years of high school but, masturbation is really "having sex" if i read that right...if i didn't then sorry :P

but sex is over rated for kids under grade 9 i think, but also if you think of it, you might be in high school but you are still only like 15 or 16. I have two different opinions sorry if i am confusing you :P .

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by: Sara S.

Having sex too young. hmm. This may not be such a terrible thing, right? wrong. Thruth be told it is a bad thing. Having sexual intercourse outside of marriage is wrong according to the bible. I read your question and decided to go right to the source. I read Genesis chapter 39: 6-23. Have you ever noticed that our society seems to run on sex? Advertisers sell everything from toothpaste to tires by appealing to society's obsession with things sexual. The story of joseph can teach you 2 things about sex. First, teh pressure to have sex outside of marriage isnt new. Second, you dont have to give in to the pressure. Joseph didnt. He refused to "do such a wicked thing against God." (Genesis 39:9) But lets get back to the question. God wants us to enjoy sex. The bible says that the best sex is under God. That may sound strange. But yes, I said it. God wants you to ENJOY sex. Having sex and making love are different. Making love is someone that you have commited your life to, and sex is just lust that the flesh brings upon us. I encourage you to stay strong and wait for marriage :) any other questions? I will keep updated

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