when i finally meet a boy

by stumped
(stump city)

when i meet a boy i like and would like to get to know him better, how do i talk and hang with him without being obvious??? cause all my friends are bound to notice because i hardly talk to guys that i count as friends!!! i'm confused...........

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when you do
by: Kristin

I had both positive and negative experiences with boys when I was in school. Most of the negative experiences came from rushing things with them when I wasn't really ready for something so serious. My advice would be to hang out in groups of friends more to get to know and talk to guys. If you change your pattern now, your friend won't see the difference when you meet that special guy ;)

When you do meet a guy you come to really like, I think (and I'm speaking from personal experience) it is still good to mostly hang out in group settings or with other friends. One day our brains have better judgment to know how to handle relationships then when we are so young and that just gives you less opportunities to really rush things or make decisions you may regret with a boy you like at the moment.

Darn Emotions!
by: S'ambrosia

Emotions are tricky...especially in the female heart. Even when you try your hardest to keep from showing a guy that you like him, your eyes and body language will speak volumes (maybe the guy won't get it...they usually don't, but like you said, your friends will probably be able to tell and then they'll tell him).

I'd advise you to start controlling the way you act around him by controlling your mind. Convince yourself tht he's your friend instead of a potential boyfriend. Hang out with him like you would with other friends...in groups. It will take all the stress off of you and help you be yourself around him.

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