When do you know you found love

Well I want to find the perfect guy but I don't know if he's good or not and i don't want someone to call me hot

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True Love
by: Sarah


I think I can understand how you feel. Because we all want to find the perfect guy, we want to believe that there is that perfect guy out there waiting for us to find, and that the world would be great and wonderful once we find the perfect guy. That's how I used to think as well.

I even had the same thought as you! I did not like guys who said I was hot or constantly said I was pretty, because I felt they were only looking at the superficial me, they were only attracted to what they saw on the outside, and that prevented them from getting to know the me inside. And more often than not, this was true.

The guys who said I was hot were not mature enough, they wanted to get girlfriends to boost their own ego, to show off, or to fulfil their own sexual desires. A mature and loving man would think of your interests first, because a relationship is not meant to be self-serving, it is meant for both the boy and girl to serve each other, to love each other in good and bad times. I'm glad I was not easily attracted to guys who told me I looked great.

I've come to learn that in everything, God must be first priority. God says, "But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33. God says that if we seek Him first, He will pour out blessings in all areas of our lives, He will provide for all of our needs, including our need to be loved and cared for, including our need to find a partner.

And the most wonderful part is, God has already set apart a man for you. He is not perfect, because all man are sinful and fall short of the glory of God, but He is specially created for you, and you are specially created for him. How will you know this is the man? You will know, when you seek God first, and seek His wisdom and discernment, when you ask God for advice each step of the way as to which guy is best for you. Ask God to show you what to look for in a man, read more tips from this website. And when you meet that man, the man who truly loves God, who truly loves you and serves you, and seeks to honour God in all that he does, you will know that he is the one.

Don't rush into the process. Take your time to get to know the guy first. Be friends and see how he deals with people, with other girls. See if he possesses all the good traits of a boyfriend and future husband. See if he is willing to commit to a serious relationship and invest into the relationship.

All the best! In all things, seek to honour and please God.

In Christ,

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