by shh

most of the girls have really tanned legs and they are always showing them off to everyone.

I've been recently going out with someone and he likes me cuz im not like super girly...
anyway once we was hanging out and my friend had a skirt on and he said he liked it....

I would show my legs but there not tanned and some of the products just turn peoples legs orange.

I want my legs to look natural...
i live somewhere the sun doesn't really shine so..

do you know how i get looked more tanned...
or any good products..?

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by: S'ambrosia

Before you start to go into a downward spiral, I want to give you a word of caution now...

Stop comparing yourself to other girls in order to please guys!!!!

Though you may or may not recognize it now, everything you said in your question screamed insecurity. Your boyfriend made a comment about another girl, you took it personally and compared yourself to her. End result: insecurity began to surface and now you're searching for a way to change something about yourself because you feel it will make you more attractive to him.

Honey, if someone really loves you, they will take you as you are. You don't have to change a thing about yourself to make them love you(well...except for negative attitudes and such). Please don't fall into the grip of insecurity. It starts with something simple like tanned legs, but then it evolves into more and more compromise. The next thing you know, your insecurity may lead you into sexual activity because you feel he will leave you if you don't please him in the way he wants.

Live your life for you, not for him. Learn to flaunt your legs (in a modest way of course) and be proud of them for the simple fact that you are your own person and you don't have to look like everyone else to love yourself! Just be careful and check your heart on the daily!

The Inside Counts!
by: Anonymous

I recommend continuing to be yourself and impressing your "guy" with all the beauty that is "you" from the inside!

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