by Janis

I have struggled for years in finding the true meaning of love. Well, there are different types of love. The love I have for my child is unconditional, and just because I get upset or angry or disappointed if he does wrong, it does not change how I feel for him, there is no choice to leave! One does not even think about that! Its a commitment and a choice.

In relationships we tend to want to change people. We have sexual relations and then think we are in love but its lust! Then as we get to know that person, we find flaws that we argue about and try to change. The reality is this...... If you love someone there are reasons you love them. We as humans tend to forget those reasons and tend to forget the commitment. We only think about the options of giving up and letting go! We dont stop to think about what love is. .. IT IS INDEED A COMMITMENT.
A commitment to cherish that person and support that person, communicate and listen as well. To not judge.... If we worked on always trying to make sure our partner was happy, then both parties would always be working together instead of against each other in a competition, as it seems. I still have tons to learn about love, but I do know that it will not always be easy good times. And during those hard moments is when you should fight harder. Leaving is not the answer.

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