how is this gods plan?!

A couple of weeks ago I thought I fell in love. There was this guy and I thought we both liked each other. Well later I found out that he had other intentions. I am only 12 and he is 21. He is in jail now.

My sister hates my mom. She blames her for my parents divorce. She has been cutting herself. A LOT! I am in desperate need of advice. For both of my problems. --Alli 12

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by: Ghera

Ohh dear. You're too young for love. At your age you should focus on God , strengthen your faith to God and also focus on your studies. When I was 12 I'm also like you I have lot's of crushes and I thought I'm already in love with them but now that I'm an adult I realized that those are all just " FALSE FEELINGS " Love isn't about physical appearance it's more than that. Since I was 10 I always pray to God to find the right guy for me and I also ask him to take good care of him , keep him away from harm , guide him always , and to help him strengthen his faith to God. Why don't you do that? Ask God to find the right guy for you! don't rely on your feelings! Your feelings can fool you trust me!!!

and about your sister well I believe that only you and God can help her. Tell her how much you care for her , how much your love her and tell her about God's love.

HOW IS THIS GODS PLAN? - well maybe this is plan so that you will focus yourself on him and ask him about everything that bothers you. Sometimes we need to feel pain in order to be stronger and to have strength you need to find GOD. never blame God about the pains in your life. He loves you so much and he cares for you but he wants you to seek him first.

Are you forgetting God? Now is the right time to focus your eyes on him. SEEK HIM! PRAY! and when you pray expect good things and believe on his power to fix everything! He cares for you and also to your sister. :) I will pray for you and your family. God bless you always.

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