how do i help this friend ???

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i have a friend that is having trouble in her life. her dad is not that great and i think thats why she proubly is looking for love in other places. (lets call my friend A)she was dating this guy ( lets call him T) and then they broke up. he later started dating this other girl( lets call her H)but he still was majorly flirting with A. T even cheated on H for A. while H was on vacation T asked A to make out with him and stuff. bla bla bla lots of drama then T broke up with H and is dating A again. some of my friends and i tried to talk to A about it but whenever we do she says were mothering her. I want to help but i dont know what to do! i would really appreciate any advice you have!

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by: Sarah

Let A know that you care about her. I know what its like to have friends how mother you because they can get annoying!
But she may need some space to sort things out. If you haven't already, maybe if you sit down and tell her why you're worried about her she'll be more willing to listen.
I'm guessing A is trying to figure out where and how she can get love since she's not getting it from her father. Tell her about the love Jesus can offer her. His love can fill up anyone's heart and make it overflow because His love is boundless!
As for T....any guy whos flirting with two girls and pressuring them to make out with him isn't worthy of any great girl. It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship between him and A.
Give A time and continue to tell her what you think but don't pressure her.
Praying for you, A, T, and H.
Love, a sister in Christ

i know what you mean...
by: Anonymous

i have 2 friends who have a really bad family situations and have been looking for love in other places. it really hurts me to watch their lives and their trust fall apart. ive found peace in praying for them everyday. also, tell her that you are praying for her- that always means alot. try messaging or texting her Bible verses or links to Christian songs relating to her situation. "come home" by luminate, "the beauty of grace" by krystal meyers and "beautiful" by mercyme are great for this situation. i'll pray for you and your friend!!

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