Do crushes happen for a reason?

by lizzy

I just wanted to know, do to little things like having a crush on a boy happen for a reason?

I have a bad crush on a guy and i dont know why, its not just purty looks, its something else, and so i pryaed about it, and i know that everything we want is not in Gods will for us and i understand,but what happens when your heart hurt about things like this?

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Crushes are hard
by: EMMMeRs

Crushes, i believe merely happen because of some type of attraction to that person. So, maybe you like this guy because of a good christian trait. That's good! Then you are maturing. God allows us to have crushes so that we can learn what we want in a husband. Learn to recognize what it is you look for in a future mate. It's important, and crushes aren't bad, you just have to control your emotions. I know they hurt, i have expirience! But God will help us with the confusion and anxious thoughts if we ask Him.

Well Said
by: Anonymous

Excellent answer Emmers!
Lizzy, she is absolutely right - listen and learn from this crush.
Be blessed precious!

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