confused about guys and love

by Carolina

hey! er.. okay so, theres this guy, and i like him A LOT! but he just sees right through me! as if i was invisible or something... and im sick of that.. cause ive been trying to be pretty and funny and thinner just 4 him! and he doesnt care about it!

im sick.. but at the same time, i cant unlove him! no matter how i try, he is always ALWAYS on my mind! what should i do? help me pleeease! im sick of him not liking me!

~desperate gurl

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Not worth it
by: Shanese

HEy hunny. If a guy does mot like you for you or wont even give you a tells you that he is not worth it.If you keep putting yourself out there it will turn around and bite you in the butt. SO just wait for a guy that actually knows you are on the earth. You deserve it.I know wat it is like, so please trust me. It will get better. JUST TRUST IN GOD!

thank you!
by: Carolina

thanks a lot for your comment. today at school i saw the guy and talked to him for a little while (him: hey, me: whats up, him: nothing, me: gotta go 2 language.. c ya, him:later ). and i mean. he might not be worth it, but i still like him a lot. i decided to give myself a break on guys for a little while and hang out with my friends some more. i really hope it works! even though he might be present when we hang out. i really wanna be more than just his friend, but if he doesnt see me that way yet and i have to change so much for him, then maybe you are super-right. he aint worth it!

don't worry about it
by: Anonymous

If this person really likes you he would have told you. He would be a man and tell you. You put yourself out there to be noticed and he does not seem to notice. You even lose a few pounds so he can make a compliment and he never seems to get it. You change how you look and everything. Well, I think everyone went through what you are going through. You do not need to do all of that. If he wants to be with you he would have let you know. Just wait, there is someone for you. Remember true love waits. If he really is a genuine person he would have notice from the start. So, I encourage you to wait and do everything for yourself.

by: Ashley

yeah there is this guy that i really like but he is one year older than me and he never talks to me its so wierd cuz he is always staring at me and givin me this look like i did somethin wrong he knows i like him so that may be part of it but don't worry jus keep prayin.

Book Recommendation
by: AJ

Okay, so there's this book called "Guys Like Girls Who..." by Chad Eastham. It's a REALLY good book, and it helps you to understand guys a bit better. Now, it clearly states at the beginning that it is NOT a book about how to dress or act, or what to look like if you wanna impress a guy. But it's got some really great advice in it, and I highly recommend it.

Later, sisters!

With love, AJ

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