Love and Sex

Im a christian and i have fallen for a boy in my school. We have had sex and I am 16 even though I wanted to wait till marriage. The only problem is I don't know if I can have sex with him again because he is a Jew with no foreskin and it doesn't feel right.

Help me.

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Doesn't Feel Right..
by: S'ambrosia

Your post kind of troubled me, to be honest. You mentioned that the only problem concerning you having sex before marriage is that the guy you had sex with has no foreskin so it doesn't feel right...

It worries me that you see this as a problem instead of the effect having sex has on you spiritually and emotionally. Is there anything else about this situation that "doesn't feel right" to you...other than the physical feelings? How do you feel about not being able to wait until you're married to have sex? Does it bother you at all?

I hope you don't feel like I'm being mean or anything, I just would like to get a better understanding of how this whole situation is affecting you. Please comment back or shoot me a message at I'm praying for you, hon.

Please read this
by: Sarah

I think you need to know the Truth. Maybe you have never been taught what was right and wrong, but you have made a grave mistake girl. And the reason why I'm writing this to you is because I am concerned about your future, and because of God.

Do you know that pre-marital sex is a sin? It is more than just a choice, but it is a choice that we have to make that has great consequences tagged to it. God hates sin. And He has a reason for every thing that He commands us to do - It is for our own good.

Let me put it clearly - You should not be having sex with anybody except your husband, and only after you are married! That is how God created sex, to be enjoyed within the boundaries of marriage, not outside! Don't let the Devil lie to you that it is ok to have sex with a boy you like/love. Don't let the Devil tempt you to having intimate relations with a boy for any reason. God does not desire this for you.

You said that you are a Christian, but as a fellow Christian I want to tell you that you have made a huge mistake. And that you may know that there's a God, but I do not believe that you have a personal relationship with the Father or have experienced the work of the Holy Spirit in your life. Because when we know the Father, we will know His heart and will for our lives. We will have the Holy Spirit inside us to guide us what we should or should not do, and we will develop the fruit of the Spirit, which are Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Goodness, Kindness, Faithfulness, Gentleness and Self-Control.

If you ask God for anything in His Son's name and according to His will, He will give it to you. If you really repent, He will forgive your sins and remember them no more. He will give you self-control so that you will be able to resist temptation to have sex.

Do not compromise any longer! Do not withhold yourself from what God has in plan for your life.

Pray with me. "Father, I pray for my sister who has written this message. Father I pray that you open her eyes so that she can see You and know You. I pray that she will not be deceived by the Devil any longer, that You will give her a fresh revelation of Yourself that her life will be turned around and she will never be the same again. I pray that You give her the Holy Spirit who will guide her and show her what to do, even when she does not know what she should do. I pray that You develop the fruit of the Spirit within her, that all around her may know that You are her God. Father I pray that she may come to know the saving grace of God, that her life may be transformed in the way she treats others and makes her decisions in future. Father I know that you love her, more than we can even imagine, and although you hate sin, but you still love the sinner. I pray that Your hand may be upon her and your grace that is anew each day will be sufficient for her. May she learn to trust You all the days of her life and not lean on her own understanding. We pray all this in Jesus' most mighty name. Amen."

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