God is Love
I believe there is NO choice in being yourself. The Bible says that the most important thing is love. When there is so much bad going on in the world around us, I hardly think that God is going to deny people who simply love differently than others. I tried, I really did. I spent my entire teenage life in a downward spiral trying to 'Let go and let God' and date nice boys that I had fun with. It never worked. I was living a lie, and I was miserable. I spent three years of my life heavily involved in a youth group, surrounded by great people who really cared about me and helped me to learn about Jesus and Christianity. The entire time, I struggled with my sexuality behind closed doors. It was wrong, and so was I. I had many issues because I felt so conflicted, including a brief 2-3 year stint with cutting because I hated myself for being the way that I was.
Finally, I learned to accept myself, and found out that MY God loves me NO MATTER WHAT. It is belief that spawns religion, not fact. I believe in a higher power that wouldn't want me to suffer through life living a lie.
If there is such a God that truly is going to deny me because I lived a good life and loved someone else with all of my heart, just because that love was different, that isn't the accepting, unconditional, tolerant God that I answer to.